Quote from: onyi2010 on 24-01-2011 12:51 PM
a friend of mine that is engaged is having problem with her fiance about school.
she got admission in Rivers State University of Education to Study Biology which is her dream course, and Rivpoly (partime) to study science lab tech. her parents are no financially stable to see her through school since her father lost his job and he is not getting any younger the only person sponsoring her school is her fiance who is saying that she has to do the patime for two years and stop at OND for the rest of her life becos he has a building project and he wants to go for his masters. but it has been her dream to be an educationist. he is dictating for her becos he is the person bring the money and he doesn't care if she is ok with it or not he gave her four reasons why she should g for the masters
1.that they may not get married at the end
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person.
the lady is just 21yrs while the guy is 28yrs.
now friends what should this lady do? should she forget her dreams of becoming an educationist and marry the man becos of money to go to school and the four reasons he gave to her or should pursue her dreams and loose the man and her marriage.
NEVER GIVE UP YOUR DREAM FOR A MEN, THERE IS NO GUARANTY IF HE WILL STAY WITH YOU
she got admission in Rivers State University of Education to Study Biology which is her dream course, and Rivpoly (partime) to study science lab tech. her parents are no financially stable to see her through school since her father lost his job and he is not getting any younger the only person sponsoring her school is her fiance who is saying that she has to do the patime for two years and stop at OND for the rest of her life becos he has a building project and he wants to go for his masters. but it has been her dream to be an educationist. he is dictating for her becos he is the person bring the money and he doesn't care if she is ok with it or not he gave her four reasons why she should g for the masters
1.that they may not get married at the end
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person.
the lady is just 21yrs while the guy is 28yrs.
now friends what should this lady do? should she forget her dreams of becoming an educationist and marry the man becos of money to go to school and the four reasons he gave to her or should pursue her dreams and loose the man and her marriage.
NEVER GIVE UP YOUR DREAM FOR A MEN, THERE IS NO GUARANTY IF HE WILL STAY WITH YOU