i think she needs experience if not she will see her husband as a mistake just has she sees her boyfriend as an enemy of progress meanwhile you followed him all the way and you expect him to carry your dreams with you because he doesn't have his own dreams too. change your ways of thinking baby girl.

its important you educate yourself in life am not talking about going to school i mean learn from other experience why many kid ?

you call them poor people maybe they are poor physically and mentally,  cos when you have 3 kids and you cant afford their upbringing then why 7 kids.