it just mutation
although it rarely occurs
they should take him for surgery or government should do something about it
sorry boy

ur first gf did u warn her before u broke up
did u tell her u feel uncomfortable when she does that
becos everyone know that a big sin on top a man and speaking in tongue
o boy if u told her and she still continue i think is was better that u ended the relationship be cos u don't even know if she is doing incantation of her fore father but that is funny speaking in tongues while on bed with a man
double trouble
and as for the 2nd bf just tell her ur hrt they way u feel if she love u she will control her segxwal urge
if she cant do that for u then she will definitely cheat on u some day and that will be the day ur not in the mood to have sex

my dear i have sat down and read all the reply to this topic
but i just want to tell u that prayers has different level
the one u need now is deliverance u dont need to be possesed by any spirit before u can   go for one
either for urslf or for ur husband but u can stand in for him
i dont know if u are a christian or not
but u should no that any man that is not cheating on u and even if he is cheating he has the right to still come back and make love to u as his wife so saying he lost interest in u for 5 yrs is not a physical attack
and even if it was
i think the only things that can make a man lose interest in a wife that he love so much and decided to get marry to
is when he find out ur cheating on him
apart from that nothing more
becos even if u are not dressing the way u use to dress,looking more smarter or prettier, that cannot prevent him from having sex with u for 5yr
physically is either someone has corrupted his mind with false accusation which u have to clear ur slf or u might keep suffering from what u don t know
and my dear
the spiritual aspect like i said u need deliverance for ur slf or for him they are many good churches in Nigerian
if he has refuse to tell u his secret GOD WILL NOT REFUSE TO TELL U, meet a real man of GOD
 there is nothing hidden under the sun that God cannot reveal ,physical, family problem, mental or spiritual  including medical problem that if he has .
GOD can reveal all
remember u cant solve a problem without not knowing what they problem is
go find a deliverance minister , good one oooooo, cos this is not a joke is ur marriage is like a do or die affair if u pray with anger anything making ur husband to loose interest in u whenever he see u has to pack his or her load out of ur husband life and ur life becos some times u can think becos is u that use to ask for sex that means u dont have a problem , the reverse might be the case spiritual devil is cunny so be careful
take hrt i feel ur pains is not easy 5yrs