Making a choice when it comes 2 a marriage partner,one need 2 b very careful,marriage is a union btw 2 pple,it's not something u can rush in 2 and think u can back off just like dat,u need God's directn,and d idea of giving names 2 pastors 2 pray 4 one,i don't fancy it all,so many marriages don't last just bcos dey were mislead,my advice to dis person is just dat d person shuld b close 2 God,seek d face of God in prayers,i.e 2 b prayerful and if d person can fast,she shuld not hesitate to do so,GOD help you and may he lead u and guide u in makin d right decision in Jesus Name (amen).