Yes FlyMamacita I agree with you ooooooooooo, I just feel for Elleine, she is just a wonderful woman to deserve this. She has never changed with how she treats me, she is still nice as ever, and when she ask me advice, I am speechless, all I can tell her is that my brother doesn't wanna lose her.

Am sorry for my poor writing. Let me try to explain further.

Early last year my brother went to China and had his business established there. While in China he dated a Filipino lady named Elleine who eventually became his girlfriend. They lived together and did business together.  I often to talk to Elleine on the phone and we became relatively close friends.  

Then, Last November, my brother came back to Nigeria and married his long time girl friend (Nigerian) here in Nigeria. Then he went back to China February this year. Now, Elline found out that my brother wed someone here. Elleine loves my brother so much and she was really hurt. She is asking me for advice and I do not know what to to tell her. They are still living together in China right now. But most of the time she is sad and feels hurt when she knows that my brother called his newly wed wife. My brother did not marry Elleine, she is still his girlfriend. And they are still togehter. I know they love each other but my brother loves his wife too. He does not want to lose any f them. Thanks for all those who comment. I appreciate.
 

Pepesy here is something similar, maybe you could help me.

My brother has a long time girlfriend here in Nigeria. Then he went to China to do business.  There he met a young lady named Elleine, a Filipino lady, very beautiful and sexy indeed as I saw her photos,sweet and  intelligent I could tell. She became my brother's girlfriend and they were living together in China. She has no idea that my brother has a girlfriend here in Nigeria. I have spoken to her many times over the phone and she was certainly taking good care of my brother, she was very faithful and honest to him. Doing all her best to make him happy, in fact my brother told me that she is a big help in his business. Anyway, We frequently talk on the phone and she has become a good friend of mine, I can feel a good and kind heart from her. She even sent me a present through my brother when he came home.

Now, when my brother went back to China, Ellaine found out about my brother's wife. She send me an sms, telling me that she was so hurt. And I do not know how to reply her. When my brother called me, he was complaining that Elleine was not the same again. She is always sad, and always nagging. One time I received an sms from Elleine she mistakenly sent to me, it was written in Filipino language but I used translator to understand and she said that she is terribly hurt, but it does not matter how my brother made him but how he made her smile again but everyday she feels hurt when she would hear my brother on the phone speaking his language.  From there she would knew that hi is speaking with his wife again. And what hurts her most is that when she is feeling sad and jealous, what she is expecting from my brother is understanding and comforting words, a big hug not anger, asking her what is her problem.

Elleine is texting me, asking me for an advice, I do not know what to tell her. My brother loves her and don't wanna lose her. Please help.

My brother has a long time girlfriend here in Nigeria. Then he went to China to make to do business.  There he met a young lady named Elleine, a Filipino lady, very beautiful and sexy indeed as I saw her photos,sweet and  intelligent I could tell. She became my brother's girlfriend and they were living together in China. She has no idea that my brother has a girlfriend here in Nigeria. I have spoken to her many times over the phone and she was certainly taking good care of my brother, she was very faithful and honest to him. Doing all her best to make him happy, in fact my brother told me that she is a big help in his business. Anyway, We frequently talk on the phone and she has become a good friend of mine, I can feel a good and kind heart from her. She even sent me a present through my brother when he came home.

Now, when my brother went back to China, Ellaine found out about my brother's wife. She send me an sms, telling me that she was so hurt. And I do not know how to reply her. When my brother called me, he was complaining that Elleine was not the same again. She is always sad, and always nagging. One time I received an sms from Elleine she mistakenly sent to me, it was written in Filipino language but I used translator to understand and she said that she is terribly hurt, but it does not matter how my brother made him but how he made her smile again but everyday she feels hurt when she would hear my brother on the phone speaking his language.  From there she would knew that hi is speaking with his wife again. And what hurts her most is that when she is feeling sad and jealous, what she is expecting from my brother is understanding and comforting words, a big hug and not anger, asking her what is her problem.

Elleine is texting me, asking me for an advice, I do not know what to tell her. My brother loves her and don't wanna lose her. Please help.