i hear what everyone is saying, but the question states, "is virginity decency"? The answer is simply YES! you need not elaborate on other things but to answer the simply asked question. By the definition of decency, virginity no matter what is decent. A person who is not a virgin can also be decent, by his or her character and the way they live their lives. A virgin can also involve on some in proper acts or deed, according to what our society accepts as proper or morals. I speak for women here, for a one to say to intercourse with a male especially one you may say you love. Is not an easy task, it takes a great deal of self control and discipline. If a women is in a relationship with someone the love, they may kiss them to show physical affirmation of her love and not have intercourse. Any other segxwal acts are considered indecent by our society i.e oral. In otherwords, if a virgin participates in those acts, they can now be considered indecent. Every women would love for her husband to be the first man to discover her "womaness" but that is not always the case. So if you have good character, self respect and not a virgin, lift your head up. You are still descent. God still loves you, learn from your mistake and try to abide by God ways and you will have no worries. |