Dialogue is still the best option to conflict situation. on the surface i will blame the coach for 3 reasons. 1) Enyeama played together with him, so as team mate you should have called him aside for caution.2) Enyeama is the current captain of the team, he should not be let down or embarrassed in such manner in front of those that should respect his directions. and finally 3) for his sober mood after loosing his MOTHER not father considering the south-south traditions.
Well on the whole, we might not have heard the real story,nonetheless, i still feel dialogue should have been towed.

Steven Keshi has ego and pride. We are paying him our hard earned tax payers money not to disintegrate but to unite these boys, to manage them socially and technically.  Why is keshi toiling with our emotions,  why all these excuses and the boat isfast sinking. I sincerely see that keshi is just trading this boys for highest bidder outside the shoresof this country. If not why have we not a first 11 we could confidently point at? Why inviting boys from china? I suggest that this job be relieved of him this minute if we don't want further embarrassment.

Elders would say " speak no evil of the dead " . whatever might be your stand remember that tomorrow remains unknown to us all and be mindful that justice denied in any part of the nation is injustice to all parts.