My mum and dad have been role models for me. Both of them earn salaries. Dad takes care of school fees, house rent, light bill etc and my mum is strictly food/feeding. This was how I was brought up. When I got married my husband is an alpha Male....takes care of everything. I didn't feel comfortable at all. We had a talk and he understood. So I do exactly that in my home...kitchen area is mine and the rest is his. It gives me a sense of pride to contribute to my household... this is my opinion.