@ Bissiblaq, this is not the type of post i have come to expect from you. While i recognize your right to post whatever you want, i am of the opinion that you should stick with those with meaning and serious implication for our lives. These are just my thoughts

This is a very timely reminder. Keep up the good work, Bissiblaq.

Succint, apt and straight to the point. There should be more posts like this.

This is so not funny.

Its actually quite insulting, and i do not see why is should be posted here.

It makes me wonder what makes people think they are better than others

Its good news that he isn't married.

Maybe what you need to do now is, if you like him at all, give him a tiny little chance.....date him for as long as it will take to get convinced that you can live with him as his wife for ever.

This will be hard for you because, if truth be told, the money he's lavished on you so far will get in the way as you try to ascertain how you feel about him.

If you have God fearing people around and close to you that you can trust, seek counsel from them because in the multitude of counsel, there is safety.

One last thing....this is your life and private business....you may want to consider keeping it away from the public domain, for your own good and for his good as well.

I wish you well

I don't think its exactly out of place to find a decent guy who will lavish money and affection on a truly decent woman.

What i don't get is why you asked the question '...is he for real, or is it pay back time..'?

What are you paying back? Or are you being economical with the truth?

Its easy to see through a genuine man, especially by a lady. My take is, if he is genuine, you already know.

All the best

NB. I forgot to ask the most pertinent question: Is the gentleman single? If he is not, is he a muslim? Do you mind being married to someone who is already married?

This doesn't look real at all!

In your estimation Poster, would you say you were ever a true friend to this guy's baby mama? This may be a little harsh, but i think you stink

I think this is a very timely article. Rather than criticize with bias, i think we should appreciate this, and encourage others to share their views. You never know which you may be benefiting from.

Funny how you would date a girl for 7 seven years and only get to know her tradition ans customs in the 7th year. Its absurd in this internet age where every info you desire is available at the click of a button

I think this is a very silly post. Why would you even ask such a question? Is it not intuitive that no right thinking girl will sleep with her boss, whether or not she is in any kinda of relationship.

Get busy man!

Is it not clear that the lady in the picture is insane? If the Nigerian society women were going to protest, they will not send only one person.

Am i the only one who smells a rat here? There is no congregation in all of these 50 pictures. I still don't believe that BLW would condon such an unholy act

Which church wedded them. I don't think that BLW will do a thing like that. How come there is no photo shot with the congregation? Is this really a church wedding or some make believe. More like a show of desperation. I hope Yvonne Nelson didn't take any active part in this sham called a wedding

I find this story hard to believe. Are people still subjected to this kinda treatment?

 very good question!

You are so right!

Does the common man have any hope in Nigeria?

This clearly shows the kind of President we have.

Where was Patience before Jonathan became President?

What career was she pursuing? What has she done to save up that kind of money. Perhaps this explains why the inexperience Princess Stella Oduah of SPG is the Aviations Minister

What is even more appalling is that some people are applauding her. for looting our national treasury

May God help us in this country

Poster, please always double this kind of info before posting. Governor Peter Obi of Anambra state just confirmed that the Odumegwu is still very much alive

Very true

Hi Pals,

I found this rather long but very emotionally disturbing article on the online version of sunday Punch of July 31, 2011, and felt it will be useful to share it here.

While it is not obligatory to comment, your comments may well help those directly involved to chart a forward course of action.

Please read on.

Bimbo and Dada were supposedly head over heels in love with each other, things went on fine until Bimbo began to notice that her fiancé, who she was soon to walk down the aisle with, was exhibiting signs that elicited cause for concern. Dada began making up excuses for everything-would not pick her calls, would return them either or even call her. Confronted with this, he denied, insisting that Bimbo was getting paranoid over nothing. She soon found an answer to the disturbing trend—he was seeing not one but two women at the same time—and this was just four months to their wedding. To even think was she was two months pregnant!


She couldn’t understand what had come over him and why he was bent on destroying everything they had nurtured together. Dada soon gave her a piece of his mind—he was no longer interested in the wedding and wanted to opt out. He agreed to play his role in the upbringing of the child but wanted nothing to do with her. He gave no reason for his abrupt decision and wasn’t ready to listen to logical reasoning.


To say that Bimbo was devastated would be just putting it mildly, her world came crashing but in the midst of the storm, her baby kept her going. To keep her sanity, she relocated to England and remarried. She shielded her daughter, Feyisayo, from her father who stopped seeing to his daughter’s welfare after she clocked five.


Fast track 27 years later. Feyisayo has grown to become a lovely young woman and a professional orthodontist. She was dating one of the most eligible Nigerian bachelors in London, Pedro, who not only worshipped her but was ready to spend the rest of his life with her. A day for family introductions was set. It was easy for Feyisayo whose parents live in London. Pedro’s mother lived in London but his father shuttled back and forth.


They were able to find a way round it; the timing was fixed to coincide with when Pedro’s father would be in Queen’s land. As pleasantries were being exchanged between Feyisayo’s father and Pedro’s parents, Feyisayo’s mother, Bimbo was forced to abandon what she was doing in the kitchen to attend to her would be in-laws. What she saw stopped her. Dada was in her sitting room, grinning from ear to ear. On seeing her, the grin immediately disappeared. Bimbo demanded to know what he was doing in her house, to which he responded that he was Pedro’s father.


That was the first shocker that made her slump. When she got revived and all explanations were made, she slumped a second time when Feyisayo announced to the bewildered guests that she was already two months pregnant for Pedro. How disheartening it was for everyone. The problem now is how to solve the knotty but delicate issue. How do you think they can get out of the mess created by circumstances and irresponsibility on the part of Dada?