that is a good gesture

I think all you are right..

   
      The Lagos Government on Monday barred visiting governors and top government officials from using siren in the state.
I just wish this use of siren barred come to a reality...

Have you ever felt frustrated trying to get the one you want to want you back? Have you ever felt like the cause was hopeless and there's just nothing you can do to win their heart?

Such frustrations are common. All human beings are subject to them. While there is no way to completely avoid them, there is a way to overcome them and find success. The way requires a basic understanding of those principles that motivate the human heart, followed by a patient application of those principles.

If you will systematically apply those principles in a well thought out strategy, you will ultimately reap the rewards of your efforts.

Applying the principles is up to you, but today I wanted to share with you a few truths relating to love and romance:

1 "In Love" is a form of dependency. Therefore, if you want someone to be in love with you, you will have to make up your mind to meet their emotional needs so that they can grow dependent upon you. This includes hundreds of hours of listening to them while they talk while you, for the most part, are just attentively silent.

2 People are attracted to independence and repulsed by those who seem to cling. Therefore, to avoid scaring off a potential love you must throw in a lot of apparent aloofness while trying to win them. If you think this may confuse the one you want about your real intentions, you're right. Sorry, but that's just the way it needs to be in the early stages of romance.

3 People want what they can't have. Therefore, you have to hold back form giving yourself completely to the one you want at the first indications they're starting to become attracted to you. Instead of giving the dog the whole steak at once, feed it to him/her one bite at a time, over an extended period of time.

I'm speaking here of deeply shared feelings and your valuable time. Be careful with how much time and feeling you give to the one you want. As to segxwal involvement, that should be withheld until after the marriage vows, or you'll reduce their incentive to get there. Why buy the cow when the milk is free?

4 People's conscious decisions are subconsciously motivated. Therefore, don't be too concerned by what the one you want says they think they want, or acts like they think they want. You should act on principle and eventually they'll realize that what they really want is you.

5 People are most drawn to a person with a positive and confident self-image. Therefore, resist the temptation to spill your feelings of self-doubt. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than somebody who insists on bursting your bubble and destroying the image they want to have of you.

6 People's attitudes are really a reflection of what you think of them. Therefore, while not wearing your heart on your sleeve, you must still prove though your actions that your friendship to them is a committed one. This takes time.

7 The longer a relationship grows, the stronger it becomes. Therefore, if you mess up along the way, take comfort in the fact that tomorrow is another day, and the fact that you prove you have lasted and learned from yesterday's hardships, will in itself increase their feelings of commitment to you in the long run.

   
      I am very surprise that we Nigerians never feel ashamed about some kind of comment we make on air..professor iwu make a comment that really annoyed me.And that comment made me feel ashamed that i am a Nigerian..he conducted the worse election for we Nigerians..that other Africa country's cannot even emulate..we were told that the election was the worse election ever seen in the history of this country..but this IWU came out to tell we Nigerians that the election conducted by the U.S.A is not a good one..that they should learn from us..what on earth can the U.s learn from us for Christ sake..Is it the stealing of ballot boxes or the killing of innocent people who came to vote for their choice people or the thumb printing of voters card for one person to win a election which people came out in mass to vote for whom they feel is their right choice..i honestly disagree with him..we show learn from the united state of America and not them to learn from us..God owns country..May God help us..God bless you all that read and what is your views

Suppose you came across a friend who travelled abroad.and you both were happy to meet each other..both of you now went to a restaurant and had some drinks.you asked your friend if he was married and he told you he did..and bought out his phone to show you his wife and kids.and asked after your own wife and you did bring out your phone to show him your lovely wife..and your friend tells you that he new your wife and they have both had a relationship in the past..what will you do? know well they both had something in common before.will you snob what he told you and pretend like you never heard and move your relationship froward knowing that you guys have two kids..and you never tell your wife what happen, or will you call her and ask..just wanna know your views you folks in the house..

Women wahala too much....they too get wahala..but we can't still do without them we men....you have to treat them like a baby who they are...make una no vex abeg you ladies...that is just the simple truth..