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1  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Woman has 5 husbands who are all brothers - and she sleeps with a different one on: 20-03-2013 02:08 PM
there are so much work to do. a lot people need Jesus, many more need education and countless others need enlightenment. "The harvest is indeed rich but the laborers are extremely few" Jesus said, "Pray the Lord harvest to send more laborers the vineyard" so the question is: "Instead of sitting by the sidewalk and condemning, are you in?Huh? Let's mobilize forces and educate the world and make positive impact as much as we can. peace y'all.
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Does chemistry between a man and a women make them compatible for marriage? on: 23-01-2013 07:33 PM
Quote from: evaworld on 23-01-2013 06:40 PM
Capital NO! What happens when the "chemistry" feeling dies? Like one of my sisters will say, when u feel gish gish ap2wards ur spous. Love transceeds segxwal feelings (that's where chemistry always lead to). While chemistry doesn't tk note of a spous' fault initially, compatibility sees d fault and adapt or mould with love, so when the relationship grows love keep and hold it. When chemistry dies in a relationship, it takes only love and the fear of God for that relationship to stand!   
Thanks for your excellent contribution. Great articulation!!
The presence of chemistry between a man and a woman is good but that alone is not enough for a successful marriage. Love built only on body chemistry will eventually fade with time and circumstance. Compatibility is love built with understanding, respect and compromise.
3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Does chemistry between a man and a women make them compatible for marriage? on: 23-01-2013 05:35 PM


A friend approached me and told me he wants to get married to his girlfriend because he believes she's his wife because of the strong chemistry between
them. The fact of the matter is that compatibility and chemistry is not the same, although they compliment each other. Compatibility can lead to chemistry but chemistry does not always lead to compatibility. First of all chemistry is ruled by the law of physical attractions as navigated by infatuations. Hers's an example; you start dating someone because of how pretty or handsome and sexy they look, and your romance and sex life with each other is great. This is what a lot of people consider as strong chemistry and before you lnow it, they start proposing to each other for marriage. Compatibility on the other hand is much deeper than chemistry because it goes beyond the physical shallows of chemisrty into the deeper intrinsic personality qualities that compliments each other. Chemistry is great for dating relationships, but for a happy long lasting marriage relationship, you have to trascend beyond the shallows of physical attractions (chemistry) into the intrinsic world of personal qualities and values that compliments both personalities. Okay naijapals, here's the question? Does the presence of a strong chemistry between a man and a woman make them compatible with each other for marriage?
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Who is More Promiscuous, Men or Women (Page 14) on: 23-01-2013 10:19 AM
of course some women are only good in bed and for bed, nothing else. they think that parading their sexy asses and those curves is all it takes to make a good marriage material to a man. they get it all wrong. they can blow your mind in bed with all the positions, styles and segxwal tricks, they can ride a man better than the cowboys on horsebacks, but they cant cook, they cant clean, they cant run a family or know how to do any domestic shores inherent with marriage life and responsibilities. such marriages seldomly last. the euphoria of segxwal fantasy can last only but for so long and the realities of marriage life and responsibilities will start settling in the man, he will end up sending her away for a better girl who understands marriage life and responsibilities even if she is not that great in bed.
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Who is More Promiscuous, Men or Women on: 23-01-2013 07:24 AM
I understand why a lot of women are in here defending their own gender. Thats cool. However, women are far more promiscuous than  men. The article inferentially agrees with me completely where the writer who I suppose is a woman says that men dont hold back when it comes openly speaking of how many women they done laid while women on the other hand are much more reserved when it comes to sharing such experiences. So the answer is right there within the article itself. A woman's dignity worth more to her than anything else, because in that dignity lies their pride and sense of purpose as women. It is the 'persona' with which they assert the importance of their role in, within and before the society, therefore what more could be degrading than a woman sharing her segxwal experiences with multiple partners. However, a man is completely the opposite to a greater extent which is also the way the human society has made it to be. Therefore men are liberals when it comes to sharing their segxwal experiences while women are conservatives. This means men are more open in sharing those experiences than their female counterparts. That opennesss make some people think that men are more promiscuous than women because they have the nerve to talk about it. The truth of the matter is that men are very open to talk about the little 'FLING' they do here and there, while women are too reserved to talk about their wild sex adventures with multiple men to fullfil to innate fantasies. So by nature, women are more flirtatious and much more promiscuos than men. Cool
6  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: [Photos Inside] Buried Baby Found Alive on: 22-01-2013 05:46 PM
this generation is already under judgment. how much bad is bad enough. 'FROM ALL EVIL, JESUS DELIVER US..... AMEN-N-N'
7  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Manners and Etiquette: The Best Rules to Follow on: 18-01-2013 11:59 AM
nice article. however no. 7 is not very specific in terms of details. what exactly do you mean by stinky food? do you mean rotten food that stinks or you simply not being comfortable in your own skin? If you feel ashamed of others smelling your food in public, may be you should not be eating that food in the first place. culture is a people's way of life and no culture is superior to others. I think the best way to put it is for you to be proud of who you are no matter where you find yourself, but do it with prudence (right judgment).
8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 12 Reasons why (most) women don’t like dating nice guys (Page 10) on: 10-01-2013 07:12 PM
when it comes to matters of the heart, there are no rules. that's why love has no guidelines since we all feel and express it in different ways that best make us feel special with our partners. what sustains your relationship may not be what sustains another's. a lot of factors help create the disposition you assume in your relationship: family, religious and cultural background. some women are raised up to be a 'slave' to their men whereby they continue to die in silence and stomach all the crab, insufficiencies and deficiencies a man has to offer, while others are raised in a culture or mix in an environment in which they become self expressive. however, there are certain experiences that are common in every relationship, no matter how conservative or liberal you may be. relationship and marriage is not all about sex, however segxwal intimacy is the strong rope to tie that knot of love between two couples, every other thing else is an enhancement. it carries up to 75% strength in upholding any relationship, the rest accounts for 25%. anyone who is of the mindset that sex does'nt matter much in her relationship is either not very segxwally active or has accepted and settled with such pettiness to become her reality. she probably has never experienced the intense female orgasm that comes from a good sex because her man has probably not been able to give her once. tlak with your friends and work with your man to fix the issue, and you will agree with me. LOL!!
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 12 Reasons why (most) women don’t like dating nice guys on: 10-01-2013 04:36 PM
to certain extent what the article said contains some elements of truth in it. the elements of good surprises is a variety that spices up a relationship, as a man you suppose to be in charge and take control of your relationship in every aspect of it but without being controling, women love. there are times when you need to ask for your woman's opinion and there are times you dont need to. it's okay to seek her inputs about your goals, aspirations and stuff like that. but it's not okay to ask her permission or seek her suggestions before flipping her over while making love with her. nor is it okay for her to educate you or tell you what or how to do it to her in the bedroom for her to burst those 'nuts' lol!, there is nothing as boring and as disappointing to a woman as those bedroom or intimacy lectures that she has to give to her man. sometimes most 'Mr. Nice Guys' are good husbands because, I mean most of them are gentlemen, but they may not be good 'bedmates' to their women. women love bad boys in the bedroom, believe it or not. however you should not take everything the article said and digest it in its entirety because that will only leave you with a teenage mentality. it's not every bad boy in the street that's a bad boy in the bedroom and a man does not have to be a bad boy in the street for him to be a bad boy in the bedroom. it takes a mature and responsible woman to discover him: "a gentlemam in the street but a bad boy in the bedroom" because he does not make noise or sound his trumpet. just the same way we men like it: " a lady in the street but a freak under the blanket" : PEACE Y'ALL!!! Kiss
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