I have this problem of a broken heart, i have been a victim of it twice and really the type of girls that tickle my fancy are slim girls with the right features, but recently i have not been coming accross my type of girls, i recently met a new girl, though she is the opposite of what i expected (white though), but she loves me alot, and its like my heart is numb, i really dont understand me anymore. Basically i am trying to love her but my heart dont secret those fluids nomore, what do you think i should do, tell her it cant work or just wait for my sorry self to respond. Does it work that way sometimes?