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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Wat is wrong if i kiss my G.F on the street ?? on: 5-04-2009 12:02 AM
There's nothing wrong with that.
I think it has to do with your perception. If you want it go ahead.

However, it's an act that suggests sex (depends on the way you get on with it though). If it's a deep one and lasting more than a few seconds, better for your home as you may just get people distracted be it in Naija or Yankee. Besides, little children may just be within; although it's true they'll get to do it, why not let them advance and get to do it at an older age than let them watch and immitate you almost immediately. We might just start experiencing explosion in population of underaged parents and it will even cause you worry. True!

The bottom line is, I think a kiss in public should suggest a warm greeting and not segxwal. Go ahead with it. No wahala!
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2  Forum / Sports / Re: Why are Nigerians always talking about foreign clubs? on: 29-10-2008 02:09 AM
The Naija folks always talk about foreign leagues and clubs with so much passion, and so much money goes into it. Not just that, they've formed strong alliances. They seldom show intrest in Nigerian clubs. I think it has to do with the admiration of the way things get done efficiently outside Nigerian shores (even though it may not be flawless). The folks over there have invested heavily in their clubs to entertain their fans and make money from it. It turns out to be lucrative business and everyone wants to go there. Recently we heard of some Africans (including Nigerians) bidding to buy Newcastle FC.
We can't blame anyone who has interest in the foreign clubs. It's high time we improved ours to meet the international standards, so Nigerians can begin to proudly talk of the local clubs and leagues too.
3  Forum / Sports / Re: Liverpool (1) Vs. Chelsea (0) on: 29-10-2008 01:40 AM
I was surprised to hear of it. It's such a feat for the Reds. I'm happy for them; they are a respectable team. The Reds should keep it up.
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How well can u kiss??? on: 26-10-2008 02:31 AM
Everybody thinks he or she is best at it. How do we get to know who's really hot and bad kisser? May be we stage a contest for real. How 'bout that?
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ladies what would you do if you find out that a boy of 22 is still a virgin on: 26-10-2008 01:05 AM
Bros, welldone sha. If you must lose it, you get to understand what you're in for. Good luck
6  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 18 Similarities Between Women and Computers on: 26-10-2008 12:22 AM
Truly, there are similarities between women and computers. Yet we must not mistake similarities for "the same." They aren't the same. But they are similar.
Talking about CDs for computers and women:
1 If you put the CDs the wrong way, they get damaged, so with care.
2 You can leave the CDs in the drive while going about your days activities; they can be useful at a time you never expect.
Hope you get it.
Kudos for all the brilliant contributions, especially to the author, keep it up!
7  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: drop punch lines, motivational sayings, wise words, slogans, etc here on: 28-08-2008 03:16 PM
There's always REWARD for HARDWORK
8  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: drop punch lines, motivational sayings, wise words, slogans, etc here on: 28-08-2008 03:10 PM
Nothing is free, not even age.
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: The five toughest questions women ask are on: 15-08-2008 09:52 AM
That's a good one, dguy. Really nice. Why should it cause uproar among us. Abi we dey compete for somethin? Huh? Huh? Huh?
10  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: MY BOSS IS OBSSESED WITH ME on: 15-08-2008 09:27 AM
Hey, I think you have the option to accept or reject the offer. Do it if you think it's right. You're a man. Do your thing man. Remember if it's going to earn you any good do it, na your right.
11  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: An 84 year-old Nigerian man speaks on having 86 wives and 170 children: on: 11-08-2008 08:47 AM
It's so funny. Thank God for the man anyway. It's a free world, it was his choice and he made it. I think they are doing well. They feed well and even go to school- the man even has a primary school in his compound which caters for his children and other neighbours children's education; so thoughtful, he didn't neglect the education of such a number of children. At least I believe he was prepared for it. Not bad afterall. He got presidents, governors, senators, policemen, Managing directors, doctors, lawyers, accountants, engineers, footballers, soldiers and whatever you may think of among them. I wish them good luck.
12  Forum / Health / Re: HIV test before Nigerian marriage on: 10-08-2008 09:54 AM
HIV has been on the rise for decades now, and recent records show a slight fall which is good news. Yet we have to put some effort to stop its further spread. Getting tested is an important step to protecting ourselves from the virus. And the test has to be voluntary and confidential. However, it is not wrong for an individual or group (like a church) to recommend that an individual should get tested (for his/her good) and without any compulsion.

Where a church is requesting a test before marriage it's not bad, the church or those involved should make the guy and lady see reason they should go for a test; I think the result must be between the guy and lady and not anyone else unless they decide to voluntarily disclose their status to others (and the church). It is for the intending couple to make an informed decision on whether or not to go on with the marriage based on their HIV status shown by the test result, so they won't have any reason to seek a divorce because of their HIV status in the future after they are wedded by the church. It would require proper post-test counseling for them to understand what they are going into if their status are both +ve; or one -ve and the other +ve. [Same applies to genotype- genetic counseling].

Bottom-line is: HIV test before marriage (anywhere in the world) is important, not under compulsion, and with guaranteed confidentiality of intending couple for their own personal decision, not a church's decision.
And please bali4real, any one living with HIV is not referred to as "victim". That word creates the impression of discrimination and even a "death" sentence for HIV +ve people. The preferred word is "infected" or the phrase: "People living with HIV/AIDS (PLWHA)".

Thanks guys and ladies for all your brilliant contributions. It's an opportunity for learning from each other. Kudos
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