She has been dating this guy and she's hiv positive. The first time they were intimate she insisted that they use a condom, but he refused. They say when your hiv status is undetectable that you may not easily transmit another person??? Now the guy wants to marry her. She beleives that God will heal her once she's married, because she will have a husband now, and no longer commit fornication. How does she tell the guy?

please brothers and sisters i am in a big shit right now. i have two men that wants to marry me. it goes like this... (man # one and man # two) i am hiv positive and man # one is my boyfriend and he is aware of my hiv status and he still loves me despite my present condition, but he is married, and now he wants to marry me and leave the woman because according to him, he doesnt love her as much as he loves me. he vowed never to disclose my status to anyone. however, i am currently undetectable. but then came man # two, who also wants to marry me. the problem is that man # two is not aware of my hiv status, and i cannot get myself to tell him because i dont want any scandal (ie i dont want a situation that i tell him and he refuse to marry me and will not keep his mouth shut about my status) i really want to tell him, but i am scared that he might start broadcasting it to everyone. pls what should i do? i didnt want to tell man # two maybe until after we are married. is this a wise thing to do? pls give me an honest and candid suggestion. thanks guys.