'' If the foundation is destroyed, what then can the righteous do ?''. I am so sorry for this man. He is really toiling with his life. The members should pray for him. He should put away all pride and ask God for mercy. He is really mocking God with his character. Unbelievers are all saying bad about his character. He is a blind man, leading a blind congregation.
The same way he is behaving, is exactly how all his members are behaving.
May God have mercy on him. I am also praying for him. Its not every one that says Lord, Lord, will enter into the kingdom of God.
I am not judging him, but l am counseling him, based on the word of God.

My dear sister, the solution is to repent and give your life TOTALLY for Christ, God will show mercy. Mathew 11:28 and Hosea 6:1 - 2 .
Please flee from this your boy friend, he will destroy you destiny. Your pastor is right. Please break this evil relationship.
Please hear what the spirit of God is telling you.
''Obedient is better than sacrifice''.
It shall be well with you, in Jesus mighty name.

i don't think that man will leave to tell about 2015,

 

Those ladies look very, very crazy. They need spiritual deliverance, because their destinies had already been mortgaged.
Chances of having  good husbands are in danger.
Please, let them repent and return back to God, for God is a merciful God, He will surely pardon them.

Those girls are shameless harlots.