Hi, well, that's chika's version of the story , what's the ex-hubby's version ? before we can draw any conclusion regarding their failed marriage. i'm not in anyway or manner alluding to wife battering/abuse of any kind but the truth of the matter is that Nigerian women with due respect to some exceptions does not understand the true meaning of MARRIAGE and the worst culprits are Nigerian women residing in the western societies with their husbands-------and many of them are sending their husbands to jail by the minutes because of the favourable laws that tilt mostly in their favour  in these societies------guess what ? the children of these union are the real victims and the society ultimately pays the price when these children grows up to be misfit/miscreants. Mr. H.O (canada)