Now this is getting too much, and something has to be done to these idiots that thinks just because they paid a woman's bride price, they have the right to disfigure the woman's face. This stupid actor/ movie producer should be stripped off from the movie industry because he is not only a disgrace, but he is also giving the movie industry a bad name.

Hey you should not attack the poster that way, these are things happening in Nigeria today, to the point that even the educated ones are doing it, and these things should not be hidden. Beating a woman is very bad, whether it is husband and wife matter or not, by the way if the foolish movie producer does not want to be humiliated by people he should stop behaving like the idiot that he is, by stop beating his wives. According to the story, his first wife ran away, and now the second wife, it is very bad of him. If it was your sister would you tolerate it? so pls leave the poster alone and let him open the ass of all these stupid men that think because they have money they can treat women the way they like.

I will not divorce a man for cheating on me, but I will no longer have sex with that man because I don't want him to transfer any HIV/ AIDS or STDs to me, so he will have to choose to either divorce me or live with this conditions. As for a man that beats me, I will DEFINITELY and INSTANTLY divorce him because at the end of the day, the beating will never stop, and may lead to death. I don't believe marriage is for better or for worse, if the marriage works out well, then I will stay, but if it turn bad to the point of punching me, I will leave. I believe it is a two way thing (50-50), I am not his punching bag, or slave or toy, so I know I should be treated fairly and respected as well.  Nigerian women needs to know that they are worthy of love and respect, and should not be handled like some piece of rag. They should never accept abuse(physical, mental, emotional) from any man (Husbands or Boyfriends), and they should stop showing vulnerability to men all because they want to be in marriage. Even God in Heaven is against infidelity and assault.

I am speaking from experience, please I think it sounds ideal to do so, but I will not encourage anyone to reveal your earnings to your boyfriend because that can be the beginning of trouble, especially if you know that you make more money than him. Men have huge EGO, and the smallest thing can make them feel insecure even something as small as your salary. It is not a crime to keep it to yourself, after all he is not yet married to you, so save yourself the trouble. Also you have to accept within yourself that if you will not disclose your earning to him, then don't force him to disclose his to you, so that your relationship will not be based on what either one of you earn.