Latest posts of: Olachi76

Moreover, Mr. Man....it is a parable anyways....which should mean...a smart woman can make her husband do whatever she wishes him to do and he won't even notice.......I still don't consider that weakness but strengths and smartness

Quote from: trolling on 28-11-2011 05:00 PM

The neck wont move unless the the head or brain signals the neck to move, dont you know everything starts frm the head, miss teacher dont teach us nonsense.

Doesn't matter how many signals the brain sends - if there is no neck, the head won't move...gbam!

Quote from: hiddenpearl on 3-11-2008 07:59 PM

The kind of fish you catch depends on what you use for bait! Most guys go about throwing money everywhere and trying to buy a woman's affection. Of course you are going to attract gold-diggers when you do that! When you are buying her stuff before even getting to know if she's worth it! You want a real relationship fellas, go about it in a real way! Get to know the woman before professing undying love and throwing away your money!

Well said!

Quote from: daysolar on 3-11-2008 07:52 PM

I know a guy who has a white girl friend, and I must confess that as an african lady I can't do half of what this white girl does.... she is too calm, understanding, respectful and doesn't know what she's worth (without her man she can't survive). Our guys r just tired of seen us take charge of things, they feel we brag and we are arrogant, but I say we are only being strong.

Do you think - a woman that has realized that the man is the head of the family but the woman is the neck is weak?? Always remember, it is the neck that turns the head oo Grin

well to me is a sweet idea - it shows u think and care for her....

If however she has a problem with that, find out why?

Maybe she doesn't really like u?
Or - she is not alone and the message is causing wahala for her side ... Grin

Quote from: dguy on 13-05-2009 07:26 AM

Does unconditional love exist?

Can you just love someone without any reason? ---

If not, what could make you love somebody?

Unconditional love exists - between mother/father and child and vice versa.

It is very rare that you find yourself loving someone for no good reason (as in, he is like that, or has that)

It happened to me once - he was absolutely not my type, nor was he very nice to me - yet I loved him....truly

It took me long to forget him - and a piece of me always will.

Just my 2cents

Quote from: grin_genius4lif on 7-05-2009 12:48 PM

I am not here to bash black men but I want some understanding as to what the problem is with black men....Perhaps if we named all the things that are going wrong with black men, then maybe we can solve the problem. But first, we need to know where these problems stem from.

8. white women loving

What is the problem with black men? Are black men listening to people like Farrakhan, Bill Cosby, Obama, Biden, Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, etc....Do they not hear the things that are good for them...

ehn ehn....do I hear racism and discrimination there?

To each his own ok - is it not black ladies datin/loving/marrying white men too?

Come on!!

Quote from: eagleseyez on 16-12-2008 02:41 PM

Quote from: liljoe on 16-12-2008 02:04 PM

nonse...yah..i called it nonse....u guyz want to be acting like the whites....huh? Huh?

....that doesnt speak well of your personality.

take off ur clothes
then u'll be more african
and stop walkin on shoes

NICE ONE!!

Joke aside, am white - am not feeling too comfortable kissing/making out on the street or in the bus or something like that.

I mean - u no get self control?

Peck or a hug is ok.. though Grin

Quote from: blackberryPearl on 15-03-2009 07:01 PM

don't even tell u ex husband
just tell her that she is wearing urs not a new one

Was my first thought as well....but then - wouldn't it look like she still cares about the x Huh?

But what the guy did was the worst thing in bad taste and he obviously does not have any regards towards that marriage that has given him two wonderful boys.

Woman - just forget about it - you don't need to belittle yourself as to even mention it....

I wish you all the best for your future!!

Quote from: lonelysnow on 9-02-2009 07:37 PM

Girls of nowadays believe caring is all about the man spending money on them. i think is wrong.

U rock!!

Unfortunately, many guys think the same....and neglect the emotional side of caring a lot - true! Angry

Quote from: Resi on 3-02-2009 10:01 AM

Yea.a poor but creative & striving man. The man does not neccessary hav to take the full responsibility of the wife.

Women should learn to be industrious & independent.While the hubby still remain the head of the home, inspite of this the woman should be submissive to the hubbby.

Very true!!
Same here

One should not always expect ready made....if he has potencial - why not.
After all four hands can build more than two, abi?

Quote from: mattugo on 5-02-2009 01:01 PM

well that the guy is poor,doesn't mean that he hasn't got some other things right about himself.The ladies to shud know that the present age that we live in now, does require that no one shud be dependent on someone. Yes it is the responsibility of the man to provide for the family, but he shud not be stretch beyond bounds.and then a woman who has got some kinda job in hand will get so much respect from her man

Well spoken!!

Thanks!

Thank you very much....thought as much though

lol

@whoever asked the question: I am neither igbo nor yoruba - am german

Thanks again!!

hmm, thanks for the replies so far

Really would love to know what is written there.... Roll Eyes

Before I go haller someone wey no deserve am...lol

Oya ladies and gents...come on...

Thnx

Hi my pals,

I received this text message and find it very hard to translate it.....can u help?

"Ayomide ololufemi ife re ni okan mi oda bi eni se obe ti ko fi iyo si ni.
Ti mi o ba ba e soro ni ojumo inu mi ko ni dun.
Iwo ni oyin ati adun aye mi ma doju timi"

Please help me out!!!

eshe/daalu

Quote from: C-boy on 5-12-2008 04:40 PM

Ich liebe dich (German)

C-Boy oooo

U don go rob my language oooo

Why now Roll Eyes

But is definately german Cool

Quote from: chukabennier60 on 16-11-2008 09:00 AM

GO TO MATTHEW 7:7

Nothing more nothing less to say to that!!

Quote from: ifelove3 on 7-11-2008 04:13 PM

Why is it easier to have sex with your EX? I mean much easier than when you guys were dating. Have you guys noticed?

The thing is, that all the pressure has fallen off...when u guys are no more together - is a no strings attached situation...u know what I mean??

Is jus pure lust...u want her she wants u.

Or u guys are realizing that u r meant for each other..

Quote from: digitalman on 8-11-2008 05:51 PM

make sure u do it to her own satisfaction, improve ur power

True

Mistake most men de do is this....they think na quantity goes before quality...lie lie

A real man will make love to u ONCE a night and will knock u out for days...

Doesn't even take too much...

Take ur time, find out what she needs to really get satisfied...

No jus hammer the gurl, come and then stupidly ask her

Did u come?
.
Or

How was I?

Out of principle - for ignorant guys I cannot answer this question

But the guy that really put effort in me enjoying - e no go ask me I go tell am say:

Grin

Quote from: eagleseyez on 8-11-2008 06:57 PM

all for ur woman? remember to conclude wth a basket full of recharge card gift, if not this poem that u've so taken ur precious time to compose wuld be shoved back @ ur ass

Looks like u only go for golddiggas ooooooo

If the man I love sends me this kind of poem....wow.
Wetin I need recharge card for?
Chei - men!!
Is u that spoil some women, later u will be wondering why they r materialistic...no
be u that made them get used to it in the first place??

na wow

@poster

The poem is jus too much I love it!!