WOW! Sex is not that necessary at all..... Cos you might have had sex with the lady whom she think you would be his husband and since you have dis-flowered her and also you have departed in your relationship, she has become a JUNK in your presence. From there, you won't let any of you friends or whom you know be-friend her and also go Scott-free.. SO you have started a thing that wont finish...............

Well........I am very surprise to meet this type of issue in this forum. However, I am presently dating a Deeper Life Lady......Her Mum and Dad are respectively a servant of God. So you can see how long it is. But to my surprise, this lady was the  one to ask me out. Although we were working in the same place by the time we started our relationship so within all that time, I also have interest in her, but I am a type of a SHY person. I think that was what she noticed in me and voice it out to me saying Kayode I love you....So that is how I got about mine and for others, just make the lady realize that you have a feeling for her and whenever she agrees over it, don't just think f having Sex straight with her. Bet me: She is the one to beg for sex from you....
Wish you best of luck
Kayluxneedsu...........