by the tradition and custom of the world, a woman is supposed to take the name (surname) of her husband in marriage. this is to show that she is no longer single and she is for her husband. just as a man sacrifices his friends and family (which the woman also does), it is a world wide practice for a woman to take the name of her husband.

the law however does not make it mandatory. it is by choice. that is why i woman who was already a public figure with her name may not change her name after marriage because of public policy. imagine your icon or supper star having to change names, it may not be easily accepted by the public - it won't be easy for them to get use to it and it may pose some difficulty for your company to go through all the change of name processes

legally, it is not mandatory, conventionally, yes!

Earl Alright
Alright's Passion

in a world like ours, anything can happen. no wonder Gordons said if God does not punish this generation, He will have to apologise to Sodom and Gomora. However, we praise God for Grace

having sex with a man does not show that you love him. it may show that you like him and you are attracted to him. on the other hand, he does not have sex with his emotions but with his body and that body needs constant satisfaction. if you give him sex every time does not mean you love him but love sex activities. but a man is so terrible that he does not care who gives him the sex, all he cares about is that he gets sex. i wrote on an issue Boys are like Babies. you could follow the link below to read for yourself the segxwal mechanism of guys
http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=178065645542946

no and no. i am a man and i've got some issues with woman. but i know God didn't make any mistake in creating my mum, my sister and my babe

Honestly, if you take the advice of the previous posters, you would be making the best decision in the present situation. that guy no be your type at all

i think a reasonable time. but what is reasonable is relative. real relative. if you just met the guy and you are not yet connecting, i suggest you need all the time. but if you guys have been going out for a while or seeing each other for some time, i think you already know and have the answer. there is actually no need beating or dancing about. say the yes or say the no. i know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but friend, you just need to tell him the truth early. the bottom line is simple. if you have the answer, give him. if you don't and you need time, if it is more than a month, i think your answer is maybe. if it is more than six months, i think is a NO. stop punishing us girls - we no do anything wrong to propose and besides, we won't propose to a person we don't think we can spend the remaining years of our life with. join me ALRIGHT'S PASSION on FB for more.

seriously, i need an answer, because i think they share some similarity. if you do, i want you to give examples and reasons. if you don't, i want you to do same.

some times, most times, we all suffer some relapse with the pledges and resolutions we make. that is not bad or terrible. the bad thing is when we fail to keep fighting. In the way against pre-marital sex is that it never ends. by the time you marry, you then continue the fight as extra-marital sex. so until you die, the fight does not end. but with God, we can do all things - the ability to master and discipline our selves. you could LIKE Alright's Passion on FB for more

when ur life affects people, it is no longer your life. the community becomes concerned. a home is about to be broken. that is our concern.

a sister is going the wrong way and will bring problem to us and the kids of such marriage or relationship, that is our concern.

the moment you live in a community, it is no longer your life. no wonder the state would prosecute a murder case and investigate a suicide incidence. what do you think?

nothing has happend. that's true. but there is emotional attachment and strings; that is also correct. nobody chooses who his/her emotions fall in love: that is only true when it is a crush or infatuation. love is a decision. you feed it and it grows. you starve it and it dies.

you flirt with him - not sleep... but maybe kiss...

babe, you gat to rum babe. severe the romantical attachment and save yourself other headache.

what else would you want a married family man to do with another young lady if it is not to frolic? he may not have the intention from the beginning. but you know what, these things creep in un-invited and i am sure both of you won't be able to say no for long.  yeah

flirting is a fling or romance based on physical appearance and maybe plus physical activities. if all you do is flirt, i wonder who is that guy that wanna flirt without being physical.

however, by the nature of men, they are naturally promiscuous. they have been designed to always want sex.

infact, a friend said, "e no get who no like woman... na self control na im some of us just get"

if you rate the sperm production rate and know that an erection can occur without anything segxwally in a guy's mind, and that he is segxwally turned on by what he SEES and touch and possibly smell, you will understand his nature better. however, on facebook, the Alright;s Passion will soon upload a note " boys are like babies" it will also be on www.myspace.com/naijapassion. you get to understand will every girl may see every girl as a sex image.

love this one

that is a jurisprudential fundamental philosophical question

sometimes i question "what has virginity got to do with men?" because, 'tis more like the ladies' thing. they can prove yes or no physically, but men may only be able to prove segxwally active physically and not virginity. however, it should be noted that girls could be born without hymen and exercises plus other activities could remove it other than segxwal intercourse.

could you explain more? because i don't understand.

someone just made a blunder. even those very - highly segxwally active could cum early and that still depends your definition of cum early. health could also be a factor. so also is state of mind or the interest sort for in the act. many factors could cause a man to cum early and not necessarily because he is a virgin. first round suppose to be about 3 - 5minutes and second round about 7mins.

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