excuse me...hold it dere........cant u read?was i in anyway supporting stigmatisation of single mothers?or was d conclusion u drew from d topic.............i think i deserve better dan dat from u
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I wasn't talking to you; I was talking to a perticular Ihuoma girl. I think I accidentally deleted the quote before posting. I realise you're just looking for contributions, and that's what I was doing; contributing.

 I'd like to say that I am a teenage single mother; I'm 18 and my baby girl is 13 months old. And it's people who have the opinion that girls like me are 'bad' or 'sluts' that drive teenage girls who get pregnant to get abortions. I'm not a slut; the only person I've ever slept with is the fater of my child, and I'm not 'bad; I just decided to take responsibility for my actions. If I'd aborted her, who'd've known anything? I was not raped; I had consensual sex with my boyfriend, and I got pregnant. If you are a virgin who has never 'fooled around', then I will be more inclined to view your comment graciously. Having my daughter was and still is one of the most amazingly wonderful things to have ever happened to me, and I wouldn't trade her for anything in the world. So when I go out with her and I see people like you staring at us, I know it's because they are ignorant of what it means to make a mistake yet never regret it.