Seek God's face, stop forthwith, giving him your hard-earned money.

I will urge you to diligently seek God's face in this matter. Use wisdom when it comes to finances, don't saddle yourself with burdensome responsibility when he is clearly not playing his role as the head of the home . meanwhile, stop giving him your hard-earned money.Time will soon tell if he's legit, or just a pathological exploiter.May God help you.