Im canadian and my husband nigerian , his dad was shockednto meetbasnhe failed to tell them im white , his mom god bless them is amazing infinf that the culture thing is big but inalso found that he yes like the list up there but its also about actually stay that waay plus the fact is that he Hates naggingbso instead inget silent omg wow he goes nuts  and starts acting all cute tobtry get me snp . Nope when his guilt drives him nuts and he ends up making mistakes thinking im notnsee wht he doe in the end I win cus he trips himselff up  and nagging will get him deny deny deny nd hell no so that what worked for me 5 years and going

Well if he really loves you tell him beause the longer you waait the worse it is if u love him say it if he leaves well then you deserve better.