Lauretta,
Are you married? Where is your husband right now? Where are your children and how are they doing as free born in their fathers' land at the moment? I don't think you are an Igbo woman based on this your right-up. Have you called the young man to talk sense into him so to speak. To wash your dirty linings in the public is the best?
You have not been able to drop anything on a way forward from here. The FGN is saying "don't preach hate" especially to other tribes. Also don't do that to your own brothers and sisters.  
He may have done something wrong here, the best expected of you is to proffer solution so as to have a better way forward. Unless you want to tell us there is no issues on ground as regards our dear nation Nigeria. And that will be very disappointing you know.

Simply sit down and review all that transpired between you guys, observe the lady very well. only then you can find out your faults and make amends. Its very difficult but be very mature you maybe better of tomorrow i bet you

So...cute

I don't get this!!