If you cannot protect your wife, you don't deserve to be a leader...you can't protect the country. The truth is that we have presidents and prime ministers in Nigeria and all these is forcing me to believe that maybe a man from Sudan is the figure head - "my oga at the top".
No federal government will deliver you from killer herdsmen, get that into your skull, defend yourself, don't be stupid to challenge armed men with nothing, get yourself a defensive weapon.