Ini, look before you leap. Do not rush this second marriage so that you will end up, hard I known. Take your time, fast and pray, and seek the face of God. Marriage is not what the public think it is. It is the maturity of the mind, patience and tolerance. Marriage is a container business. When you buy the container and open it, take your stuff as you see it and manage it. The problem with youths of these days is lack of patience, endurance and tolerance. Do your home work and see where your last one went wrong, correct it prior venturing into this second one. Remember, you don't need money but true love, so be careful.
Good Luck

The police that arrested the 'young Doctor' for possession of fire arms, are they not seeing the man walking freely with AK 47? something is wrong somewhere, we should not be deceived!

Police, should as well arrest Herdsmen and Boko Haram for unlawful possession of AK 47, Bombs, Armoured Cars, Machine Guns, who are moving freely on every nook and cranny of Nigeria and wasting lives. In Nigeria, who is who are above the law while the less privileged are under the law. Demons de craze for naija democracy.

Buhari, increase the salary of soldiers and better their other welfare. You were once a soldier can't you do something for your colleagues. In what other way can you boost the morale of soldiers if not welfare. You increase the salary and benefits of the police why can't you extend the same for these guys who have been battling the well equipped Boko Haram. Is it not shameful that insurgents are better armed than the army, and when soldiers complain it becomes mutiny and insubordination rather than addressing the fact. Where are we heading to? One day Nigerians will wake up and would be surrounded by enemies because we are not security conscious and those who have volunteered are not taken care of. Even those who are retired, their little pension are being tampered with by the personnel of the pay office. Is it crime to serve in the Nigerian military. Something one should be proud of turns to regret.
Mr. President, do something for the soldiers and military pensioners, make them proud, commending them for their bravery can not boost morale but cause regret of serving in the Nigerian military. Let the labour of our heroes not be in vain. God bless you.

 In Philosophy, when there are two evils, choose the lesser one. Mother's life first. If the life of the mother is saved, babies will come. but, if both mother and child are lost, a nation is lost because mothers make nation. However, efforts should be in place to save both lives but if not possible, save the mother.

This is very complicated and it can boomerang. Just let your sister find out by herself. The man can turn the case against you. You have to be very careful. I suggest you call the man's attention and tell him you won't be on that business any longer in order to save your sister's marriage You initially compromised and telling your sister is exposing your deal, that is why i said the case might turn against you. So, think well before you act, to avoid had i known.
Look before you leap. Give peace a change and do not destroy what God has joined together

Do not try and make such a costly mistake. This is life forever. God will give you a job when the comes. Don't sell your soul and conscience, you will never be happy married man.  You will be come an errand boy in disguise, house-boy, gate-man; honestly there wouldn't be any respect for you. The baddest of all, the children will be the sugar-daddys'.
For your own interest, just keep away from that lady she has no love for you no matter how she pretends to be.
Good luck.

This is the beginning. When he comes for the second time. he will fully come out from his shelf. The youths of the south saw the danger earlier on, the elders of the south betrayed them. The elders want money and power in exchange of their right to belong. Unless the south speak with one voice and recognise one another's effort  to liberate the trodden, they will continue to be servants in Nigeria and eat from the 'waste food'. It is time to rise and fight for your right and freedom to give peace a chance in our lives, homes and make the world a better place to live. God created the world for us to enjoy it and not to cry and regret coming into this particular undemocratic Nigeria.

Because there is no government and no operational law in Nigeria

Ngige,  the task given to you is to enhance the welfare of Nigerian workers and not the health of Buhari. The Minister of health is in the position to tell Nigerians about the health of Buhari. Being a medical doctor does not warrant you to poke-nose on  one's responsibility, sequel to division of labour. A case at hand is the wage increase you promised Nigerian workers to take effect 1st of last quarter, which is  this September and no information about it has come up, If the workers go on strike now, APC government will call it insubordination, when they are the cause.
What is happening to you Ibo saboteurs in APC  government, selling your people because of money and power. It is unfortunate. Look at south east, no road, no water, no electricity, no industry. Every federal establishments  in the north yet we cannot learn our lesson, Shame to you Ibo  men of two face. The fly that refuses to listen follows the corpse to the grave and when a corpse starts smelling the so called friends will abandon  it. It is time for the Ibos to look back address themselves or else, they will remain second class citizen in their country. Ka Chineke mezie okwua, iseee!

For the sake of human right,  the man supposed to seek the consent of the wife and both will come to consensus. On the contrary, suppose the woman ask the doctor to castrate the man, of course, she has the right to do that. Let us not forget that both man and woman are one and no longer two so said the Holy Bible. The man  even acted in ignorance because there several ways to avoid pregnancy and the doctor has failed in his ethics of profession. He could have advised professionally. In fact, the woman has the right to sue the doctor for damages and the husband for deceit.
Madam Tope, African culture is rich, the western culture has nothing to contribute in the proper management of family. Prior to white wedding (western), traditional marriage was in vogue in African culture and hardly then, you hear of divorce. But, since we have followed the western marriage, the outcome becomes, marry today divorce tomorrow due to lack of respect, no culture value . In as much as the Holy Bible called women 'Helper' does not mean they lost their right; after all, they manage home, they organise the children, praying for their husband success and protecting the man from side chicks. Yes!, the man owns the woman in terms of dressing and beautification likewise the woman, no one owns the other out-rightly but putting heads together and agree on something to avoid letting down on each other and unguarded utterances that may trigger conflict.
Marriage something you cannot predict thus issues concerning it should be handled carefully in order not to mislead couples,it is very sensitive.
I suggest the man should apologise to the wife for  the damage done to her and let the matter be settled amicably. Don't forget that marriage in African culture is for life and for the western , it is a contract. God Bless our Homes!

FIFA, has no right to suspend Nigeria. Nigeria is a full fledged Country that voluntarily joined FIFA and can as well opt out. Nigeria has the right to present to FIFA a credible person as NFF President and not FIFA imposing a candidate on Nigeria. FIFA is just an organisation supported by member countries as such, should interfere in a country's internal football management crisis. Nigeria should be very careful not to allow all these organisations to manipulate them; we shouldn't look stupid before them, we should stand by our right, make good decision without fear or favour. Nigeria made FIFA and not FIFA made Nigeria and we  shouldn't look like toys in their eyes. FIFA be warned!