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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: It's such a shame |
on: 7-11-2008 02:10 AM
| Why not try appreciating urself 1st?....honestly let's just keep those guys aside and try to make ourselves "important".. in whatever ways....dignity..modesty..intelligence...caring..humility....u name it.... Trust me..everyone around you will appreciate you ...not for what u can do or ur beauty..but just for who u r. Phewww..stori stori stori...yea.. yea but it works...
Thank you so much!!! You said it all. God bless you. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what would u do if ur boyfrd cheat on you |
on: 5-11-2008 06:12 PM
| am speechless
i think tats mad cus i made it clear my x cheated 3x tat i know of... lik is not my husband just fiancéeeeeeeeeeeeee. n i should still pretend lik its ok 4 him to cheat wen hes very jealous n dont even want me to go out cus hes scared men will follow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..... i dont accept tat in my relationship.. u are just being immature! if u know what to do why bring ur business out here. I'm sure those other girls are better and more intelligent than u that's y the 'correct guy' u don't deserve is chating on u. U should go and take a self esteem class be4 dating, if at ur age u are aving a fiance then u r old, take a self motivating class, make an A, find a hubby and stop putting ur fricking business out here. This forum is meant for ppl to share opinion and not to be insulted by their opinions. Nonsense child that claims to be a woman. Will rather stick to Facebook than this rubbish. u are so so disgusting..... cus deres no girl who will be happy to be wit a cheater...... fact we only engaged doesn't mean he should disrespect me so B I T C H shut the F U C K up n back off.......... ur honeypot got worn out that's y he is cheating ........... STUPID!!!!!!!!!!! | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what would u do if ur boyfrd cheat on you |
on: 5-11-2008 04:52 PM
| am speechless
i think tats mad cus i made it clear my x cheated 3x tat i know of... lik is not my husband just fiancéeeeeeeeeeeeee. n i should still pretend lik its ok 4 him to cheat wen hes very jealous n dont even want me to go out cus hes scared men will follow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..... i dont accept tat in my relationship.. u are just being immature! if u know what to do why bring ur business out here. I'm sure those other girls are better and more intelligent than u that's y the 'correct guy' u don't deserve is chating on u. U should go and take a self esteem class be4 dating, if at ur age u are aving a fiance then u r old, take a self motivating class, make an A, find a hubby and stop putting ur fricking business out here. This forum is meant for ppl to share opinion and not to be insulted by their opinions. Nonsense child that claims to be a woman. Will rather stick to Facebook than this rubbish. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what would u do if ur boyfrd cheat on you |
on: 4-11-2008 05:47 PM
| You shouldn't leave a guy all becos he is cheating. y do u av to make it a problem when a guy cheats... I see it as inferiority complex on the girl's part. Pretend like u don't know he is cheating, be urself, take care of yourself, get urself busy with school, work, family and all.. when he is done cheating he will come back. Instead of thinking abt who the guy is sleeping with use that time gather yourself together, don't give him any chance to compare u with his bedmates. as time goes one (if na correct guy o) he will cherish u, he go cool down too.(make sure u ask him to go for HIV test every 3 months sha) It's in their blood to cheat! they will always cheat! that doesn't mean ur guy doesn't love u.
But how many girls can calm down and do that? That's the problem! its' all abt self discpline. I strongly believe that be4 a girl goes into a relationship with a guy she should go into a relationship with herself first (it's not an easy thing to do). She should learn to appreciate and love herself. It has really helped me... when I get funny comments from ppl. abt my guy I just ignore them, if the guy is man enough he should say with his mouth that he has found a bedmate(s)... Haha lol. its means you have a great work to do....why not start a coaching centre and enlighten all this ladies of nawadays? | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what would u do if ur boyfrd cheat on you |
on: 4-11-2008 05:40 PM
| You shouldn't leave a guy all becos he is cheating. y do u av to make it a problem when a guy cheats... I see it as inferiority complex on the girl's part. Pretend like u don't know he is cheating, be urself, take care of yourself, get urself busy with school, work, family and all.. when he is done cheating he will come back. Instead of thinking abt who the guy is sleeping with use that time gather yourself together, don't give him any chance to compare u with his bedmates. as time goes one (if na correct guy o) he will cherish u, he go cool down too.(make sure u ask him to go for HIV test every 3 months sha) It's in their blood to cheat! they will always cheat! that doesn't mean ur guy doesn't love u.
But how many girls can calm down and do that? That's the problem! its' all abt self discpline. I strongly believe that be4 a girl goes into a relationship with a guy she should go into a relationship with herself first (it's not an easy thing to do). She should learn to appreciate and love herself. It has really helped me... when I get funny comments from ppl. abt my guy I just ignore them, if the guy is man enough he should say with his mouth that he has found a bedmate(s)... | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHAT CAN I DO? |
on: 4-11-2008 04:47 PM
| HEY GUY, WHAT MAKES YOU A MAN IS YOUR BOLDNESS TO THINGS OF REALITY.... YOU HAVE TO STEP UP TO DO THE RIGHT THING. GATHER COURAGE MAN AND TELL HER YOUR MIND EVEN IF IT IS ONLY A FULL SENTENCE THAT YOU WHERE ABLE TO COME UP WITH, FINE; LET IT BE THAT YOU HAVE EASED YOUR MIND BY TELLING HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL. SOMETIMES AGO I USED TO FEEL THE SAME WAY, I GOT TIRED OF IT WHEN I LOST A FRIEND SO CLOSE TO ME OUT OF MY OWN SHYNESS. I GOT ANNOYED WITH THE SITUATION AND WALKED UP TO HER, DESPITE THAT IT WAS LATE THEN, BUT AT LEAST I MADE AN ATTEMPT.. DO THE SAME BRO. ALL THE BEST. nonsense!! hmmmmn....take a few glass of a better whiskey(hennessy) and read some lines from a good romantic novel, thereafter, walk up to the guy and deliver those lines, i bet u, u'll thank me a great deal. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what would u do if ur boyfrd cheat on you |
on: 4-11-2008 04:44 PM
| You shouldn't leave a guy all becos he is cheating. y do u av to make it a problem when a guy cheats... I see it as inferiority complex on the girl's part. Pretend like u don't know he is cheating, be urself, take care of yourself, get urself busy with school, work, family and all.. when he is done cheating he will come back. Instead of thinking abt who the guy is sleeping with use that time gather yourself together, don't give him any chance to compare u with his bedmates. as time goes one (if na correct guy o) he will cherish u, he go cool down too.(make sure u ask him to go for HIV test every 3 months sha) It's in their blood to cheat! they will always cheat! that doesn't mean ur guy doesn't love u. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: advice |
on: 3-11-2008 11:45 PM
| Why does Ladies ask silly questions all the time? ?? when y are u replying a silly question with a foolish, stupid, carzy and in fact silly question. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Help |
on: 3-11-2008 11:32 PM
| @poster please, don't mind the guy. the relationship with your best friend is valueable than the one u r about to build with her ex... I reasonable guy won't date his ex's friend. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: help |
on: 3-11-2008 11:24 PM
| what the difference if you are called by a guy baby or babe.
"baby" is pampering, loving, sweet... i think when a guy calls one 'baby' it means the lady is his 'little' queen... "babe" one the other hand, to me, means a guy is reffering a lady 'babe' to a b**ch | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: why do black men go for white girls |
on: 3-11-2008 07:52 PM
| I know a guy who has a white girl friend, and I must confess that as an african lady I can't do half of what this white girl does.... she is too calm, understanding, respectful and doesn't know what she's worth (without her man she can't survive). Our guys r just tired of seen us take charge of things, they feel we brag and we are arrogant, but I say we are only being strong. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Ambitious and not romantic or romantic and no ambition |
on: 3-11-2008 03:16 AM
| To the ladies! guys feel free to add opinions. A lady has two guys in her life, let's say she is double dating, and she cares about these guys. The first guy is less ambitious, but really cares so much for her. He is romantic as well! The problem with the first guy is that he has no future! no sound education, no job, no talent.. when she brings up a business idea he ignores her saying "Baby I've got plans" The second guy is extremely focused, he has bright future ahead. He is less romantic... all he talks about is school, school, school.. he will rather watch 'discovery health channel' when he should be spending time with the girl. He cares about her too, but is career comes first. If you were this lady which of the guys will you choose, have in mind that both guys are willing to spend the rest of theri lives with you. | | | |