Of course, I agree with everything you said but say no to your 3rd to the last paragraph. If it is a woman who truly loves you, yes you can go out of your way to do things for her even if you have not done it for yourself because you are one body just as she would to you.
You just read the whole thing and still miss the whole point he's trying to make hahah he's not saying don't go beyond for your woman litteraly he's just saying be careful and make sure she's the right one even if you re going to go out of your way for her. Lol