Hi every one.I need to tell you this so as to read from you guys out there and see if there are people who will appreciate this reasonably and not with sentiment.
I am a salary earner of approximately 100k monthly.I have a girl friend(whom i am hoping i could marry),an aged mother,a car,a two bed room apartment at Surulere,younger ones and cousins.I had to list all so as for you guys to understand the whole idea.This girl friend of mine blifs am a stingy person,(that she had said time without number) because anytime she ask me of money,she doesn't get what she asked but not that she doesn't get at all.Now she has come up with a means of getting money from me by telling one story or the other about her health running to between 13-17k monthly.
If she is getting that per month,what do i do care for my car(very essential),my feeding,current further academic pursuit,my clothings,my monthly house rent(mindful of the area),utility bill(gas,electricity,water rate e.t.c),my aged mother,savings,younger ones and cousins who comes around me.
Is it a crime/wrong to have a girlfriend,own a car,live in flat,e.t.c bcos am earning 100k?

Guys,

i mean both sexes.i need to hear some tips on how to handle my victimising boss.he is always picking on me even to an extent of wanting me to attend to issues that were not related to me in the first place.he gives tall orders and after delivering beyond  his expectations,he still nag and look for faults.he wants me to be in charge of assignments given to outsiders/third party outside my knowledge & without prior information on such.My colleagues in the office commend me but he is really making me feel uncomfortable and this is making me not to feel happy at work.

What can i do?

people have always been asking questions whether age,distance,height e.t.c are important issues in a relationship.But i will like members to look at religion.Should religion be a determinant factor in a relationship?if so,what and how do we see destiny?what kind of future are we creating for our unborn children.Remember,that in the past it was used to be tribe(i.e an ijebu man not allowed to marry an egba,a lady from imo not allowed to marry from anambra e.t.c)i am talking of same yoruba,igbo and hausa either from same state or diff state but from same geo-political area.Thank God that gone are those days.What happen to the religion aspect?Do we think whatever religion we practise is by our making/choosing?do we have the power to ..........................?