About a year ago, my honey left me for another rich guy all in the name that she want to get married by 25. first of all i'm not ripe enouch finacially for marriage and i keep telling her getting wedded at that age is not the issue but the blissfulness thereof....... all of a sudden my wolrd tuned upside and no fomular worked any longer.... friends, family and well wishers intervened all to no avail.... at this point the only thing she knows how to do is to capitalised on my shutcomings.... When it got to the point that i discovered i will just die for nothing , i decided to accept my fate! months latter we started communicating - she realised her mistake and i realised mine and improved seriously on the quality of my life... We talk everytime on phone except this few eeks , i tried to smoothen d odd between her ,friend and my family... The funniest part is that the new guy knows me well - right from the time i was tight with the girl but i never knew him. Her wedding ceremony is coming up this month and a copy of invitation has been brought to us.... but i do not think i can stand been at the ceremony for now....... what do u think i can do..............
According to your post...It seems like you ex loves you and willing to marry you but you ain't ready for that big step so she had to find someone who isn't taking baby steps. I think the whole issue if from you i would do the same if i was the girl" She made it clear to you that she wanted to get married at the age of 25 and you ain't ready for marriage. Do not blame her for doing what she did.... I tell y'all, there more to this story than the OP is posting... My little advice for you is to stand up and look for someone way younger than you are so that you can have many years ahead of you to get financially settled.... Like you said you have improved seriously on the quality of your life so be a man and attend the wedding and quit bitching around plus she ain't your honey no more