I think the ladies too should learn hw to say no wen such pass it made at them. Sex is not meant for boyfrend/girlfrend relationship rather its meant for marriage and for reproduction.
A boy comes home from school and tells his mother he has been given a part in the school play. "Wonderful," says the mother, "What part is it?" The boy says "I play the part of the husband!" The mother scowls and says: "Go back and tell your teacher you want a speaking part."
Tell her not to try such rubbish. If he really love her and is ready to marry her let him do away wit any of such conditions and go ahead wit d marriage.
Tell her not to loose her faith bcos of money. If God wants to help her or the family not in that way. She should ignore the money and stand her ground by insisting on her no for an answer.
I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
I think she is sincere enof to tell u hes a frend. I will advise u ask her how long they've knwn each other. Try to monitor her movements 4rm now onward to see if u can catch her with the same guy again.
The book of Hebrews 13 vs 4a says "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled": so i believe its better to court and not courting to defle ur mariage bed.
I think 6months to 1yr is ok for courtship during wich period u've known 80% about urselves and have agreed to get married.
I dn't encuorage sex b4 marriage as the Bible speaks against it. The Bible warns us not to have sex b4 marriage but to kip our matrimonial bed undefiled.