hey pal,i neeed ur help.my boyfriend who gave me condition 2 wait 4 12yrs spoke with me recently and he said the trust we had for each other has faded.he was like no honesty no trust,am ready to trust him to be faithful to him.aside that,he said no girl is worth trusting gain because most relationship involves sexing.he prefers having a phyuk mate to a girlfriend.my boyfriend is far from his senses,i guessed i really hurt him.he said if i cant wait for 12yrs i have an option of being his girlfriend if i could abide to his law like he would not kal,i can call him but no texting and i should believe am not the only one he is dating.this was so annoying and i told him he is making n sense.am left with two options now,it is either i choose the one that is conducive from his commandment or better still i wait for 12years.am in a fixed..........i really do love dis guy

i have a boyfriend who really loves me.we have been in dis relationship for the past three years.its just so unfortunate that things began to take a new dimension.he stopped calling for the past six month and i was so worried.wat really happend was that he lives outside lagos but he was always there.he gives me all i needed and i was satisfied.along the line when he stopped calling i started having missed feelings about him having another girlfriend.i had a toster in my area but do not like him a bit,i agreed just to have someone out there.i gave up the relationship,begged my boyfriend and told him everything i did because i was feeling guilty and the fact that i traded his love hunts me.he told me to let him be for another six month to forget the issue but i can not let him be for a second not to talk of a day.he had pity om me and we continued but he was just not the same.he was not calling i was worried i traveled down to see him so we can resolve issues he said i should give him a month i did but i got a call from him to wait for twelve years. now he has forgiven me but the point is that he has made up his mind.i really love him but he says i should wait for good twelve years before we can come back.it is not easy loosing the one you love dearly.i so much believe him and am sure he is not into a new relationship.i keep in touch daily just to make thing work.pls pals advice me.what should i do should i wait or move on with my life.