well for me i don't c any problem wit my gf checkin my fone, infant i feel comfortable wen she check my fone, d tin is dat i don't have secrets. u can only b scard wen u ve secrets to hide, i do at times check her fone but i kn, she always delete her sms b4 i lay hands on her fone. lik wat most pple will say "wat u don't kn wldn't hurt u"