Because of pride.

He might likely to be your life partner so don't use annoying words to him, but sit him down and tell him that you love him so much that you will not love to loose him but he should change this things that he is doing, then tell him, holding his hands.

Keep it up man of God TB Joshua.

If you love your husband then it would be a good idea to make him feel special from time to time so as to keep the flames of love fanned at all times.

Your husband might be too engrossed in his work to take out too much time for you, but if you remind him that you understand and make him feel special then he too will reciprocate in the same manner. Here are some tips.

Give him his daily dose of hugs and kisses
Although your husband might not have the time to kiss or hug you in his hurry to rejoin the rat race, you can still give him a quick hug and a kiss.

This will remind your husband that you still love him and provide him some justification as to why he works so hard each day.

Cook him his favorite dish
You can surely win your husband's love and make him feel special by cooking up his favorite dish.

Your husband would reward you with a smile and polite or loud burps of appreciation.

Buy him gifts that he dreams about
If you have the money then you can simply listen to what your husband wants and gift it to him. This could include a watch, a mobile phone or even a leather bag.

Your husband would be happier at the fact that you paid attention to his needs rather than the actual gift itself and treasure it for a very long time.

Give him his night off
If your husband asks for an occasional night off that he wants to enjoy with his buddies or wants to bring them home for a game of poker then support your husband.

Your husband would surely appreciate your gesture and would feel especially special if you were to serve cold beer and hot snacks to him and his buddies.

Take your husband on a romantic date
Rather than blame your husband for losing his romantic touch you can take charge of the romantic department in your relationship.

You should find out in advance of any weekend that is available in your husband's schedule and book a romantic getaway for both of you. A candlelit dinner followed by a long walk on the beach will make him fell special and keep the flames of passion alive in your marriage.

Compliment him
You should also make it a point to regularly compliment your husband, especially if he has taken extra efforts to lose weight or dress up smartly.

This will make your husband feel noticed and special, and he will surely be encouraged to carry on with renewed dedication.

Remind him of how much he means to you
You too might get caught up in your daily routine to remind your husband of how special he is.

You should whisper those loving words into your husband's ears whenever you do get a little time or even remind him in bed during or after a lovemaking session. This will make your husband feel truly special.

These tips will help remind your husband that you do regard him as someone extraordinarily special and help keep your marriage alive and happy forever.

Two cheaters = shame

 KAI Mata dogo and husband gajere(bayaroba) Congratulations. HHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Most men are clueless when it comes to sex and SATISFYING WOMEN. And when I say clueless - I'm not exaggerating.

In this article, I'd like to help you avoid a huge mistake that men make in the bedroom. The mistake I'd like to help you avoid making from now on is...

Asking Your Woman If She Had An Orgasm

You see, here's the thing - women adore men who are masculine, segxwalLY CONFIDENT and really know how to please them in the bedroom. (By the way, I'm talking about less than 1% of men. BUT, rest assured - you can join that elite group if you work on the right things).

These types of men get women all turned on and aching for sex, before they are inside the bedroom. Women can just sense that they know what they are doing and that they are going to give them incredible pleasure.

And "YES" - that means Orgasms. Total body, sheet-wetting orgasms - and lots of them.

Now the really interesting thing is that I've hung out with guys like this (and done a ton of learning from them) and there's something that they and I all agree on. It's a little secret that the average guy just doesn't get.

Do you want to know what it is?

I thought so.

And I'm feeling generous today... so I'll share that segxwal SECRET with you right now.

Here it is...

A man who is good in bed NEVER asks his woman if she had an orgasm. Never.

Now, what you need to know is that there are two major reasons why a great lover never asks his woman if she had an orgasm.

1. He Doesn't Ask Because He Knows His Woman Doesn't Want To Hear It

Remember what I said earlier about women really being drawn to men who are masculine and segxwally confident?

Well, guys who are good in bed know that if they have to ask their woman if she had an ORGASM - it robs them of some of their masculinity and segxwal confidence in their woman's eyes.

Now that would be a very bad thing because with less masculinity and less segxwal confidence, they'd be less segxwally attractive and they'd get less sex.

Not good.

So they don't ask their woman if she had an orgasm.

This leads nicely into the second reason why guys who know how to segxwally satisfy their woman in the bedroom don't ask them if they had an orgasm...

2. He Doesn't Ask Because He Already Knows If She Had An Orgasm Or Not

Seriously, this one is so obvious it's like a punch in the face - YOU CAN'T MISS IT.

A great lover doesn't ask because he already knows.

Most guys are clueless and they HAVE NO IDEA WHEN THEIR WOMAN HAS HAD AN ORGASM - or not as they case may be.

But the great lover can read his woman's body and knows whether or not she has hit the big "O".

Now here's the thing - it is no coincidence that more often than not, the great lover has given his woman an orgasm (and usually more than one). On the other hand, the clueless guys (most guys) are often struggling to give their woman one orgasm, let alone orgasms of the "multiple" kind.

I agreed with you completely.

NO NO  AND I SAY NO:
A marriage partner that does not understand the importance of sex in marriage will toy with it and expose his or her marriage to dangers. In my position as a pastor, I have observed lot of problems in marriage as a result of a partner neglecting or denying the other partner this marital obligation. This problem occurs from two reasons.
The first but inadvertent reason is the pre-marriage life one lived. Those who married as virgins, especially born-again Christians, take some time to adjust to marital sex life. Some of them continue to live with the notion that sex is sinful. They find it difficult to yield themselves to their husbands or wives. Initially, the man or woman may show some understanding but will become irritated if it continues will ultimately lead to problems in the marriage.
The second cause, which is of more interest to us in this article, is deliberate and punitive. In that circumstance, sex becomes a weapon - a weapon of retaliation, intimidation and coercion. There will be no sex except something is promised in exchange. That is one sacrificing his or her marriage on the altar of narrow interest. By the time your partner starts looking elsewhere to satisfy that emotional urge, you will have yourself to blame.
Sex is a duty every spouse owes his or her partner. There is no excuse for it. Any reason for not obliging it should be discussed and accepted by two of you. A married man is no longer the sole owner of his body. The same thing applies to a married woman. In all truth, your wife or husband owns your body more than you. So you should oblige any time he or she wants your body. By surrendering any time your partner needs you, you are protecting your marriage.

How she go say is too big wey girls de look 4big ones? anyway tell her dat my own is small.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh She is my neighbour's wife.

This is painful.