i honestly see nothing wrong in a girl asking a guy's hand in marriage. as a girl, if u like a guy soooo much, cant u make the first move?! forget the tradition of its the guy that has to make a move... blah blah blah. if u want to propse, then propose!
well all i can say is, they are what they are.you cant take that away from them.if it's a way of putting food on their table,then why talk about it. even the police arresting these people would have had a go with them a long time ago.