As long as there is money in ones pocket , what can you do , Its common practice among the Ngunis in Africa , I know that the only sin the man commited was to  marry four women in white wedding ,had it been he married them one by one i know people woulnt be making such a fuss about it .


Not only in Southern  Africa does this happen , it happens all over the world , I am sure U all agree ,just that the life we live cannot be measured with the one our forefathers lived, but thats life , and it prevents a man from having more galfriends and chaet in hiding

I will definitely keep the baby , All I know is every situation one finds his or herself in ,Is God'way of testing your faith , It wont matter how the child came through but what matters is the child is there? i mean for the poor woman the chances of her having a child were slim but somewhere , somehow she met this situation and she fell pregnant .

if my husband is like that he wants me to abort , then I wont do that a gift is a gift.

You can Dear All  that u need is to acknowledge it yourself , The possibility of It Lies in You , y ou are the one to have it so you may aswell decided otherwise .

Thank You All For Your Responses . i know that it takes a haert that cares to no that one needs someone to encourage them . So I guess I knew what I had to do from the start , Atleast I still have my pride , I ddnt agree to go out with him on conditions that I had set for him before , And he still said he isnt that bad, I mean he is about to be 30 and yet he claims to have no gf .

My Heart isnt broken I had no hopes to redate ( If theres somethin like that) Him cuz he is clueless on what relationship got to be , He is not Independent enough to handle himself so I cant allow myself to go out with a man who is like that and on top lie to you.

So My Great pals , U r advices I keep and I know that I get to use them when situtations turns sour .


Thanks A lott GUYS

Well i left this guy late last year , and we maintain the friendship ,there were no hard feelings between us , So Early this year till recently he has been communicating thru calls, smses and so on so apparently to him he was sure that I m on too him too, So he asked me if he could come visit me i agreed . i treaded him as a visitor ,though we slept on the same bed ,there was no intimacy .

So we talked about us the whole weekend ,and all he wanted was for me to take him back ,, I also asked if I can trust him he said yes . So I told him that I do care but love it will take me time , he said Patience is Virtue . So early hours of monday morning at around 1 am to 2 am ,someone send him call back on his phone , he diddnt want to respond , cuz he said he had no airtime. So I gave him my own fone to use after making the call he wanted to remove the details esp the number i grabbed the phone and switch it off . So he then left to his place which is another province , After work I decided to call that person he called , Guess she happen to be the galfriend who was told lies that they are going to see friends in another province. So i spoke to her asked her and she was too nice to tell me the truth .

I was not going to take this guy back , first he is a liar , second is he is so stingy he can starve himself hoping a woman will sponsor him . So I know it was wrong of me to speak to the gf but I did this to prove to that guy he lies

Hey Guys In Naija ,We have many female CAB DRIVERS in South Africa, From Yr normal minibus to metred taxis , So I think Africa Is fast becoming a continent where women re taking on the so called male dominated industrries , For instance in South Africa, Women drive Passenger Buses,  Tractors, Trucks and Hearse Can U really Believe that Women Power Fellow Africans .Even if Dr Mercy is got a job , she may also love this one  .