But Stealthie, some people dont even realise how strong their libidos are until they find someone who they feel comfy enuf expore it with. 6 times out of 10, the woman has a higher sex drive and it keeps growing and growing if she's not mocked for it.
F.Y.I a womans libido drops some notches once she's married and a lot more notches once she's had her first baby. Ten more notches to that if the baby is a boy. There's just this joy that comes to a woman knowing she's being friutful. The same joy numbs her segxwality a lot most times without her knowing.
Note to guys, tame Ur sex drive once she's had a baby, chances are if U havent tried touching her in weeks and monhs, and her friend stat raving about how often their own husbands keep wanting them, she'l look in the mirror and wonder why U dont love her anymore and she'l most likely conclude its cos of the flabs from having a baby or babies... When this happens, she'l start coming on to U. hold back just a lil more, and soon her libid will rise above Urs and U'l be the only thing that completes her. Not the kids or the career or the other devotions. Just U.
While Ur waiting, try to build Urself and provide adequately for Ur family. Hold body! Not easy but damn U're working for a better future right? Today can wait.
Onche true ... but unlike habits like smoking and drinking you can curtail or hide wen courting .... the sex drive isn't something that can just go unnoticed ... I can observe and decide if we are segxwally incompatible ... but I believe that the major problem isn't the libido ... its the self-control ... if I have a guy who is hypersegxwal but exercises discipline ... I have absolutely no problems with that !!