You see,Most of our 9ja women are very selfish people. Their love for men is very conditional.
A woman can love you for the following reasons;
1. If you are very good with words
2. If you are rich or atleast more comfortable than she is.
3. If associating with you will increase her status and offer her what she does not have.
4. If her friends like you.
5. if her people (family) likes you.
6. If you will soon be rich.
7. If you know how to always make her laugh ( This is not as easy as you think)
99% of the time when a boy asks a girl out, they always tell us, "I will think about it"
What are they thinking about?,
They always want to discuss you with their friends to see what they will gain from you and if after checking you out and they find that you don't have what they need, the way there will reject you, you will only pity yourself.
But if you have any of the above qualities, she will agree to go out with you and you will think that she loves you for who you are, but most times, girls love you for what they can get from you.
If somewhere along the line, you are no longer able to do those things that she agreed to stay with you because of, she will quickly find someone else.
Women don't marry for love, they marry for convinience.
Most Men marry for lust.
Some men like you marry for love. (Big Mistake)
How can you love someone who has to calculate alot of things (personal gains) before saying yes.
@tire..u only blaming women....as if it only women who are causing this heartbreaking and whatever...men we know ahead of this break up of a thing,,concerning about the lady,,,what are the reasons she is dumping the man she is about to marry for another man for,did u ask her?
if u know that the relationship is not gonna walk out the best thing is to walkout of it...instead of trying to make it walk out...if there is sumone else..who your heart beat for why wasting your time with wha is not gonna happen?
@troll..am not her guard...okie...why u dey ask about her self?
Hope, you mean she should walk out of her engagement? she never knew it wont work out before she got engaged? In my last comment, you would realize i said and i quote "we must change" not referring to a particular gender specifically