well it is simple. most african men believe that some women are cheats, that must had ruined their womb in their past relationship, hence they want their girlfriend to be pregnant 4 them b4 marriage. they dont want a situation to marry a barren woman at home

YOUR HEART IS THE BEST GIFT TO YOUR PARTNER

THIS IS A TRUE STORY. WE NEED  A CHANGE! THE TRUE STORY IS THAT, THESE PEOPLE THAT CLAIMED TO BE PAID ONLY RECIEVE THE GRATIFICATION FOR THEIR APPEARANCE BUT NOT TO FAKE THE SUFFERING IN NIGERIA AS WAS TERMED BY OTHERS. WHO ARE THE LIERS, BBC OR WE NIGERIANS THAT ARE MASKING THE TRUTH?

well, which ever way u describe a woman may be correct because it is like the case of the description of the elephant in the city of the blind