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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ladies and their attitudinal problems (Page 9) on: 22-09-2011 11:43 AM
what about you men? do you think you are perfect?
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ladies and their attitudinal problems (Page 8) on: 22-09-2011 10:10 AM
@bissyboy and your group, you guys are the exact reason why some women hate men and why some women have "attitude problem". You call yourself a man but act like a little boy when a girl don`t do what you want and you don`t even bother to consider her as a human being, her feelings, and her believes.  a woman don`t need a husband, a man don`t need a wife, marriage is not for everyone, however, both men and women do need each other. It shouldn`t be about who is the head or the neck, but instead...how can two people WORK TOGETHER to build a beautiful relationship. From what I have seen, the african men that always say that women have attitude problem are the men that want a slave wife.  If u want a slave wife, say so, but don`t go around saying that all women have attitude problem.
Would you like if someone that you love show you no respect? Your answer is probably...NO,  what would make you think that a woman would be ok with man not showing her respect?
3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Marriage between tribes of different Lineage..ASHANTI AND IGBO (Page 3) on: 29-08-2011 03:35 PM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 29-08-2011 07:33 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 29-08-2011 07:25 AM
Roll Eyes
Quote from: CONNIE-O on 29-08-2011 07:19 AM
hmm, I`m surprise by most of the things that people are saying, especially the females.
It makes perfect sense for the kids to belong to their mother: she was the one that gave birth to them and went through most of the pain in order to bring them to this world with help of God.
Plus, most children around the world are being taking care of by women, so, I think the Ashanti tradition makes perfect sense.
Children don`t belong to their father or mother, rather they belong to WHOMEVER THAT CAN TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM.

Sorry but, if your brother is having problem with the case that the children might "belong" to their mother or her family in case of her death or anything like that, then he is not ready to get marry and his ego is too high.
Roll Eyes Huh? Huh? Tongue Lips Sealed Undecided :'( Angry Sad
sounds like u know this person,if not pls shut ur mouth,and whats his ego got to do with it,u sound like rubbish shit!!!!

Are you joking? Just in case you don`t know, when two people are married and they have kids, what is best for those kids is the most important thing. Is not about culture and tradition, but instead about what is/are best for the kids comes first.  If he is serious about having a family or if he truly love his girlfriend, then her cultural rules are something that they can over come
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Marriage between tribes of different Lineage..ASHANTI AND IGBO (Page 3) on: 29-08-2011 07:23 AM
If the father of a child is drug addict or alcoholic, do the child still belong to him? Would you ladies still leave your child with him?
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Marriage between tribes of different Lineage..ASHANTI AND IGBO (Page 3) on: 29-08-2011 07:19 AM
hmm, I`m surprise by most of the things that people are saying, especially the females.
It makes perfect sense for the kids to belong to their mother: she was the one that gave birth to them and went through most of the pain in order to bring them to this world with help of God.
Plus, most children around the world are being taking care of by women, so, I think the Ashanti tradition makes perfect sense.
Children don`t belong to their father or mother, rather they belong to WHOMEVER THAT CAN TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM.

Sorry but, if your brother is having problem with the case that the children might "belong" to their mother or her family in case of her death or anything like that, then he is not ready to get marry and his ego is too high.
6  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Why We Had To Bomb The UN Office - Boko Haram Leader (Page 6) on: 28-08-2011 09:21 AM
Muslims in Nigeria really needs to wake up and come together with rest of Nigeria to fight Boko Haram because they are shining extremely bad lights on Islam. Islam is not a violent religion, even though I am not a Muslim person, but I still know that for sure.
7  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Nollywood Star, Eucharia Anunobi Turns Evangelist After Divorce on: 25-08-2011 08:12 AM
what is the big deal here? is it that you think that evangelist women don`t wear  skimpy clothes? evangelist women don`t kiss men in movies? or evangelist women don`t get divorce?
People get divorce for different many reasons, some are good reasons and some are stupid, however, don`t judge someone in a negative light unless you really know their reasons.
8  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: WTF!!! Nigeria To Spend $50 Million To Celebrate Obama's 50th Birthday!!! (Page 8) on: 10-08-2011 09:17 AM
ok, I really do hope that this is a joke, really. $50 Million dollars birthday budget for a guy that put Nigeria on the terrorist list because his own embassy people fail to do their job properly, he has no tie to Nigeria or west africa, yeah that sounds like someone that deserve $ 50 million dollars for this birthday.
Stupid, idiot, son of a gun, crack-head government officials, you need to do a better job in trying to cover your ass for stealing $50 million dollars of the Nigerian people.

Idiots idiots idiots
9  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Females Banned From Wearing Trousers To Work In Plateau State (Page 3) on: 28-07-2011 07:26 PM
this governor is ignorant and he is only doing it to make it easy for him to segxwally assault women.
10  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 11) on: 25-07-2011 05:32 PM
Everyone has the right to decide on which direction they want to take their life, that is their choice.
11  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 11) on: 25-07-2011 10:03 AM
Everyone has their own views and believes. Just because your views or believes are different from my does not give me the right to kill you or to attack you. The same goes for those that wants to kill or attack gay people.
Honestly speaking, gay people are not our problem, the problem is with men that are on the down-low. Men that enjoy having sex with another men, but they are marry to a woman.
Everyone will have to answer to God one day, let`s just let God decide on what will happen to people that are Gay, instead of us causing each other  pain and suffering.
And no, nobody is trying to turn Africa into America, gay people has always been in Africa for a long time. Is just that there was no name for them. 
You can tell and show those that are gay what the bible or the holy books said, but telling them that they`ll go to hell is a sin, if they are going to hell, you better be sure that you`ll see them there also.
Most people that are gay did not decided to be gay, that is how they are born. It is a complicated issue that we human don`t fully understand yet. However, we have no right to be attacking anyone for who they are.
12  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 9) on: 24-07-2011 02:02 PM
that is a question that u should be asking yourself not me. I know that God does not believe in killing or causing other people pain in his name.
13  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 9) on: 24-07-2011 01:33 PM
Killing or hurting other people just because you don`t believe in their believes or views does not make you a man of God,
14  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 9) on: 24-07-2011 12:55 PM
ok, fine. however, the bible and all of the holy books were written at a different time, not now. our world now is completely different than when the bible was written. the holy books were written by man, who did not know that we were going to be facing such issues right now. laws are meant to be change, just like now I didn`t know that I was going to be dealing with a student that is 10 years old and gay. He is one of my best students and great citizen of the world.
If we really want to follow in God`s laws, then we need to learn how to accept people for who they are and not causing our world more violence and pains and suffering.
15  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 9) on: 24-07-2011 11:46 AM
what does the holy book say about people that are gay?
My point is that, we should be using our energy and money for more important things in Africa than worrying about killing those that are gay. There are worse things in this world that a person can be than being gay.
By killing and attacking those that are gay, is that making our society and countries safer and richer?
And if my son is gay, that is fine with me, I would rather have a happy healthy son, than a son that is going to be soo depressing and starting killing people, just because some ignorant people are saying that he can not be whom he was born to be.

And I am very sure that the holy book did not say it was ok for old men to be having affairs or to be molesting little kids.
16  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 8) on: 24-07-2011 05:52 AM
And one more thing,....since so many people wants to again hide behind religion because they are stupid and ignorant, how about hate? I am very very sure no religion or bible or any holy books that promote hate.
HATE IS A SIN PEOPLE.
17  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ghana, West minister order massive arrest to all Gays (homosegxwal)l (Page 8) on: 24-07-2011 05:48 AM
what this Luluboye guy said earlier is right, we need to focus more on developing ourselves and bettering our countries, instead of putting so much energy into something that can not be fix.
Being gay is not something that therapy or anything can change or fix.
People needs to stop hiding behind religion because of their own stupidity and ignorant. We are putting soo much energy into "trying to fix" people that are gay and saying that is against our religion and saying that people that are gay are going to hell, how about those that are judging gay people. It said clearly in the Bible that judging other people is a sin.
If we are going to judge anyone, judge them by their character, as in.....what the person is contributing to society positively.
We are screaming and yelling about people that are gay, how about men that are molesting young young girls? Why are we not screaming and yelling about that and trying to stop men who are into marrying extremely young girls?

There are better things we can be using our energy and money on to better our society, worrying about the gay people is the least of our concerns
18  Forum / Relationships & Romance / his promises - about to end the relationship. on: 14-02-2010 06:47 PM
I been dating this guy in nigeria. he has asked me for favor that are hard, but I still try very hard to do them for him. but when I ask him to do me very small and simple favors, he promise to do that, but it been 6 months, he still has not done them. example of some of the favors that I have ask him for would be; to send me pictures of himself, he promise he would, but never did. He always has reasons why he has not been able to, blah blah.
In my view, I don`t think he is even trying to, I told him what makes me happy, he has not done those things.
I know things in nigeria are not easy, but ... I just need true opinions

thanks.

End the relationship or not? 
19  Forum / Politics / Re: Nigeria threatens to sever ties with America on: 7-01-2010 04:36 AM
US government has gone too far by doing this to the people of Nigeria. Just because of one stupid guy, therefore the whole country and population has to suffer?

Both US and Nigeria are wrong, because: first- the family of the boy did warn the US government and people about their son but the American Embassy and people did nothing, how is that Nigeria fault?

Nigeria is wrong because, we did not not have the right security system at our airport, actually thinking about all of the countries that the boy step foot on, is to be blame for this. The Nigerian government should really do something to tell the US Government that we are not going to take this, enough is enough. 
Is it just me or the US and most of the Western countries are soo fast to tarnish the African countries image?

US government should know better, this whole thing is crazy.
20  Forum / Politics / Re: Nigeria To Break Up Before The Year 2017- Predicted by the US on: 26-12-2009 03:42 PM
I Nigeria should now break-up. The fact that we have soo many different cultures and languages, etc that is the most colorful and unique thing about Nigeria. At least once we leave Nigeria, we can still come back home, unlike people in such places as, Iraq, Somalia, Sudan or Eritrea, even Ethiopia. So, no Nigeria should not break up. Rome was not build in one day. It`ll take years to correct things. We as Nigerians, should start doing small individual things to help our communities instead of waiting for the government.
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