thanks to everybody that contribute, am indeed greatfull for all the advice but the truth is ilove her and my family already know her she is so close to them, i will find it hard to bring inn another girl to them. she has been crying calling me since i got the new and am having a surgery next week i dont know how to go about all the stress and i need to get prepparev for my surgery..

 :'( pls guy i want u to really advise me on what to do about my fiancee... am a 30yrs guy living in the States, but my girl isin nigeria
i really love her that amthe one taking care of her school and other needs, i left 9ja 2008 and will be coming back for my wedding this year 2010, only for me to be told by my pastor that my g/f has been cheating on my that she confessed to it wen they had the vision about her doing, and this is the girli call atleast two or three times every day. i called her and after much quarrel she agreed she did it...i dont know what to do noweither to leave her and look for other girl or not..pls guys i need ur advice.....am confused here :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(