If you are sure he is having affair with som1 else,what are you still doing with him?Secondly,the clock of a woman tick very fast,give the other guy a chance.Thirdly,its not a good idea to check a man's phone for text messages.
I cant stand a jobless man,they are always arrogant and they are easily intimidated.They pour their frustration on the woman at every given oppoturnity,they are very difficult to cope with.The truth be told you can hardly find happiness in their hands.