sincerely, we all know it's difficult,but it's the right thing to do. who wants to deny it's difficult. lets be real here!
It requires the grace of God because you have to be in the spirit to be able to select a lady segxwally compatible with you without testing her prior to marriage. if you are not in the spirit and still go ahead to choose without testing, you are on your own, you'll have to manage her. so bros lets get spiritual cos those that worship him must do so in truth and spirit.