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1  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Nigeria's '419' email scams uncovered: The truth behind the Yahoo Boys on: 3-03-2012 08:03 PM
 We have all come across them. Well, those of us who have ever had an email address have come across them.

They have filled our inboxes for two decades, promising us lottery wins, no-lose business deals and unrequited love.

They are ‘419 scams’, named after the Nigerian Criminal Code number for the fraud – the country where it originated.

We have been asked to claim a large cash prize by sending off money to cover a registration fee or bail out someone trapped in a foreign country. Most of us delete them.

But a tiny number are duped and part with cash to their financial and emotional cost. And, for that reason, the emails continue to come.

Advance fee fraud has been going on for hundreds of years. It originates in the Spanish Prisoner scam of the 16th century, where the victim paid money to secure the release of a wealthy nobleman from jail with the promise of substantial rewards.

The modern 419 scam began in the 1980s, when Nigeria’s economy waned. It was carried out by graduates who couldn’t get a job and was used in letter or fax form to trick western businessmen into putting money into non-existent oil deals.

Once the power of the internet kicked in, the scam went electronic. And that’s when the Yahoo Boys came in.

They made their name by bombarding Yahoo! email accounts. Now a university study, believed to be the first of its kind, has interviewed 40 of them.

‘They are very brave and resilient,’ said Dr Joshua Oyeniyi Aransiola, a sociology lecturer who carried out the study via Obafemi Awolowo University in the Nigerian city of Ile-Ife.

‘Most of the Yahoo Boys are aged 22 to 29 and are concentrated around cities with higher institutions of learning.’ They also spend many hours gleaning information about potential target groups.

Dr Aransiola and his researchers spent six months gaining their trust and they agreed to be interviewed without revealing their identities.

They ‘usually brag, do things loudly, drive flashy cars and change cars frequently’, the report found.

It adds: ‘They wear the latest clothes and jewellery. They spend lavishly, love material things and go to clubs.

‘They are prominent at parties, picking up prostitutes at night. They speak coded languages and use coded words such as ‘‘Mugun’’ and ‘‘Maga’’, which means ‘the fool’ (ie their victim).

Some of the scams include making business proposals, online dating, bombing of mails and so on.’ Dr Aransiola said: ‘When they target individuals, they take their time to get as much detailed information about the person as possible.’

Hundreds of thousands of people are contacted, paying as little as £20, £30 or £60. But if enough fall into the trap it makes it worthwhile.

More than half of those interviewed had been engaged in cybercrime for five to seven years, and 95 per cent are undergraduate students.

They are products of their times. Unemployment is 24 per cent in Nigeria but among young people the figure is even higher.

They often go to extreme levels to achieve success.

If a Yahoo Boy is pretending to be a woman to lure a target into giving him more money, he might use his girlfriend to speak to the victim on the phone.

Many scammers use voodoo to give them good luck. The will make incisions on their bodies, sleep in cemeteries and cite incantations.

One 25-year-old Yahoo Boy told the university: ‘I have used it but I have stopped because of the fear of repercussion. With the aid of voodoo the money comes faster.’

Widespread corruption among the police, security forces, bank officials, postal agents and couriers helps to ensure their plans run smoothly.
2  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 3 Fake Prophets in court for alleged N1.7 m fraud on: 22-02-2012 11:14 PM
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3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Ruining your chances of love? on: 30-10-2011 11:03 PM
Six ways you could be putting off potential lovers without realising


Are you putting off partners without knowing it?
Habits, traits and behaviours that could be repelling potential matches and hampering your chances of finding love.

Revealing your romantic agenda too early
Seeming overly eager to pin down the ins and outs of the relationship after only a couple of dates, can be especially off-putting - particularly for men who generally prefer to take things slower. You may be in a rush to fall in love, settle down and have babies, but having the “Where is this going?” talk before you’ve had a proper chance to get to know each other is foolhardy and practically guaranteed to scare off any potential mates. Be prepared to give it some time before broaching this delicate subject.

Being stingy
It’s never prudent to live beyond your means and go on dates to clubs, bars, restaurants and other venues you can’t afford but picking the cheapest place and then producing a 2 for 1 voucher deal (especially on a first date) is a definite no-no.  Sure you might save a tenner but it’ll cost you in the long run. Do you really want your date to think you’re a cheap skate? The man is usually expected to pick up the bill, but that doesn’t mean that ladies shouldn’t at least offer to pay or go halves. Avoid being seen as someone who never puts their hand in their pocket to pay for anything. Never let your date to feel as though they’re being taken advantage of financially.

Seeming too independent
Now here’s a funny one. Have you ever considered that you might seem so damn together that you’re way too intimidating to approach? Prospective partners could be feeling challenged by your all-round success and fabulousness. If you earn your own money, have your own place, drive your own car and live what seems a very full life they probably can’t see how or where they’d fit into your life. So it’s up to you to show them that you still have room for a fulfilling and lasting relationship too. That means letting them see your vulnerable side from time to time.

Bad body language
If you’re guilty of not making eye contact, hunching your shoulders and having your head bowed, you’re giving off all the wrong signals to a prospective mate. Your body language is literally screaming “I’m shy, nervous and awkward and really don’t’ want to be here.” Even if that’s how you’re feeling on the inside, it’s possible to trick yourself in to behaving and feeling more confident. First up smile and make eye contact. Secondly, draw those shoulders back and lift your chin. See, you look more confident already. Remember to breathe.

Always being late
Nobody is going to mind too much if you’re a few minutes late once in a while because of a missed bus or other unavoidable mishap, but recurrent lateness is likely to annoy your anyone you’ve been seeing for a while. Not being able to get it together to just be somewhere on time reveals a host of negative qualities that most people would prefer to avoid. Firstly it shows a lack of organisational skills and secondly it shows a lack of regard for the person whose time it is you’re wasting. So either buy a watch and get it together or risk letting Mr/Miss Perfect slip through your fingers. The choice is yours.

Not listening
You may have a lot to say and be keen to talk about yourself as much as possible in order to convey everything there is to know about you in as much detail as possible as soon as possible. But remember it’s important to ask questions and listen too. Not many people enjoy one-sided conversations where they’re forced to just sit and listen to another person bang on and on and on and on and on. If you want the relationship to work, take a break from all the “me me me” anecdotes and allow your date to tell you about themselves too. You might learn something.
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 12 Signs of a Good Woman (Page 9) on: 28-07-2011 12:06 AM
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5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Friends or Lovers: Why you can not have both on: 28-07-2011 12:05 AM
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6  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Things Men Find Unattractive But Wont Tell You (Page 3) on: 28-07-2011 12:01 AM
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7  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: THE FIRST DAY U HAD SEX (Page 4) on: 28-07-2011 12:00 AM
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8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Cossy Orjiakor Splits From Her Boyfriend For Not Buying Her A Range Rover (Page 6) on: 27-07-2011 11:19 PM
is her Bosom  real or fake, i have seen her in some video. i didn't know she is an actress, she look like a porn star to me
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Friends or Lovers: Why you can not have both on: 27-07-2011 11:08 PM
It is difficult to be friends when you fancy the person and wish to get closer to them but they are holding you at arms’ length, or vice versa. It is a clear mismatch, and in any mismatch one person is losing out, so friendship isn’t possible because it has an unequal and superficial foundation.

The Basis of True Friendship

Genuine friendship originates from understanding another’s needs and aspirations and appreciating their pain and joy. It comes out of being able to empathise with them, in both good and bad times. Such knowledge and response are not possible until one knows another for a while and feels comfortable with their presence. Thus true friendship is highly unlikely with anyone we do not know well. When it comes to members of the opposite sex, or instances where there is clear attraction, friendship is the last thing on the cards because the feelings of attraction will overwhelm all other platonic ones and get in the way of real friendship developing.

When we are attracted someone we can always fool ourselves that should the attraction not prove mutual, it can then turn into friendship and everyone will be happy. But this rarely happens between two strangers seeking to be appreciated and valued by one another. In any failure to have mutual attraction, one person is bound to feel rejected and so friendship is unlikely in such a scenario because he/she will not feel motivated to get to know the other any better. Their sense of rejection will propel them elsewhere to get the affirmation they seek.

Lovers and Friends
Another reason for seeking ‘friendship’ in the first instance is the desire for control.



To prevent being ‘hurt’, some people believe that seeking friendship first keeps pain at bay. But if there is going to be hurt, no amount of having friendship at the beginning is going to stave off the pain. Such hurt usually comes when we are at the familiar stage in relationships; when we take each other for granted or when one or both parties begin to lose their appeal.

Not at the start of the relationship. So seeking friendship first is really delaying the inevitable in a superficial way, especially where one fears commitment, and has little to do with the desire for real friendship. We cannot replace segxwal feelings with friendship because friendship is enduring while fancying someone is likely to be short-lived. Putting the two together is a contradiction in itself, especially when true friendship is only possible when the exciting feelings of romance have taken their course and we appreciate the person as someone truly valuable in our journey because we have grown to like/love them more.

Next time you are seeking friendship first, ask yourself why you need lots of ‘friends’ instead of lovers. You might be surprised by the answers you get. Not only that, look back at all the dates that have failed to live up to expectations and count up all the real friendships that emerged from them. You are likely to find that once there was any kind of rejection involved, friendship would be the last thing anyone wanted at the time!

http://carlngwenya.wordpress.com/2010/10/15/friends-or-lovers-why-you-can-not-have-both/
10  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Top Ten Secrets That Women Keep from Men on: 27-07-2011 10:56 PM
haha, very right Grin
11  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: His phone rang me, he didnot realise, I listened to him with another woman. on: 27-07-2011 01:02 AM
u been replaced goodbye u are the weakest link. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
12  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY DO UGLY GIRLS GET REAL MEN THAN THE BEAUTIFUL ONES (Page 11) on: 27-07-2011 01:00 AM
bscos most beautiful girls are too proud of themselves, which wont take u anywhere, moreover beautiful +ugly = ok, ugly + ugly = not just ok. beautiful+handsome=competition(interms of envying).  Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How true is this saying? on: 27-07-2011 12:52 AM
We women suffer a lot, y cant it be the other way round? Roll Eyes
14  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How true is this saying? on: 27-07-2011 12:50 AM
yes its true, and if she is a Muslim and her husband is a christian she has to start going to church.
15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Common lies men tell women on: 27-07-2011 12:46 AM
he says he will call back after how many days, lier  Angry
16  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: One Year Old Boy Born with 32 Fingers and Toes. [Pix Inside] on: 27-07-2011 12:42 AM
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17  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: I WAS RAPED BY A GIRL AFTER BORROWING MY 2K on: 27-07-2011 12:39 AM
lol Roll Eyes Huh?
18  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Things Men Find Unattractive But Wont Tell You on: 27-07-2011 12:32 AM
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poster if he doesn't  like me the way i am ..make he shift..ain't gonna fix a damn thing  Tongue Tongue Cheesy

EXCALTLY Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin ; if he doesnt like me for who i am he should travel far away.

i'm already on my way ladies >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

yes with first class ticket, no refundable Grin Grin Grin Grin

yeah! but are u really sure u r letting me go  Grin

100% sure, from the bottom of my heart, u will be replace immidiately.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

oh my fcuking goodness  Shocked Shocked  Grin gurl u get liver no b small thing ooo  Grin Grin

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19  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Things Men Find Unattractive But Wont Tell You on: 27-07-2011 12:29 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 27-07-2011 12:26 AM
Quote from: ladysleek4u on 27-07-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 27-07-2011 12:20 AM
Quote from: ladysleek4u on 27-07-2011 12:18 AM
Quote from: diplomatik on 27-07-2011 12:14 AM
poster if he doesn't  like me the way i am ..make he shift..ain't gonna fix a damn thing  Tongue Tongue Cheesy

EXCALTLY Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin ; if he doesnt like me for who i am he should travel far away.

i'm already on my way ladies >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

yes with first class ticket, no refundable Grin Grin Grin Grin

yeah! but are u really sure u r letting me go  Grin

100% sure, from the bottom of my heart, u will be replace immidiately.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
20  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Things Men Find Unattractive But Wont Tell You on: 27-07-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 27-07-2011 12:20 AM
Quote from: ladysleek4u on 27-07-2011 12:18 AM
Quote from: diplomatik on 27-07-2011 12:14 AM
poster if he doesn't  like me the way i am ..make he shift..ain't gonna fix a damn thing  Tongue Tongue Cheesy

EXCALTLY Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin ; if he doesnt like me for who i am he should travel far away.

i'm already on my way ladies >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

yes with first class ticket, no refundable Grin Grin Grin Grin
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