Allow me to provide this disclosure, upfront, this is no way to slander all Nigerian men. When I posed the question it merely applies to the Nigerian men that I have had the pleasure of embracing. There are many negative stereotypes associated already, this I am not necessarily trying to keep them brewing, however what the heck...
You meet them , they are either married back home in (Nigeria).. Trying to get married here in the (USA). Just because you're trying to survive does not mean you have to be dishonest. The reality is there are many women that will accept you with the motives you have. Just be upfront and honest. I actually should probably just say men, for dishonesty definitely applies across all races and countries.
So why lie??
If you need a green card, be upfront
If you are married in any country, be upfront
If you have several children, be upfront
If you're trying to game play and come up, be upfront
If you're broke and need a quick come up, be upfront
Step your game up, all the stories are played out, they only work on the simple minded women with low self esteem. It doesn't take a rocket science to smell feces, we all have noses. For those that practice being dishonest as a career, just know God is watching you. Anything you gain swiftly you will lose even quicker. Don't for one second believe you can come to the USA and there is money laying on the street, no not happening.. You're going to work hard very hard, ask any other brother that came over here, only to struggle.
well....not all women can accept the truth like u do......
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