if u cannot fulfil wot u promised her,tell her. break it to her gently. it is beta than stringing her along. one very costly mistake u guys make is proposing wen u r not ready.
@ priceless and xter i am not a newbie. i ve bin on naijapals for like 2yrs. i jst dont post or visit regularly, that is the point i was trying to make.
@mazi in some cases, it is rape, but smtimes the girl has no choice but to do it, then in her little mind, she begins to enjoy it or the small gifts attached to it. the driving force usually is the man. i have friends who wld ask their wives to send their maids away when they start getting tempted
@xter u are such a funny xter... he started it now ... the first time, he tlked, i didnt say anytn, the second time he talked again... hanhan,that one is too much now
@mazi very funny. check out this scenario "ekaette, whr is ur madam" oga says "madam has gone to see her friend" ekaette says "Come hia and bring me that remote control" oga says "Yes sir" maid says and oga's eyes is following her. ekaette turns to pick the remote and wham! oga don attack. "If u dont sleep with me today i will make sure i throw u out of my house. ur madam must not hear anything about it" Ekaette is thinking of her aged father in the village, how her madam will never believe her wen she tells her her hubby is disturbing her for sex.. blabla. A man that cannot control his segxwal urges is very weak and d maid ofcourse is always vulnerable
Mr priceless "upcoming" who tell u say i be newbie? u neva begin dey vibrate with anger. dey vex go jare and make sure u display it because it is good for emotional stability. i no go wan hear say our priceless "upcoming" don land yaba left
i define a man by his level of se;f control and maturity.. to stoop so low as to sleep with his maid and him being married....(shudder) i just wonder when some men wld start respecting themselves