the difficult thing in life is to love someone and he did not acknowledge it. don't give up marriage is a life journey. it is not easy to control guys of such age because he will like to experiment everything possible. your problem is that, U don't trust him but learn to do that even though, he is not to trust. try to know who are is male friends and study their life, it will give secret of whom your husband is. until you know him very well before you have him to urself. SOME MEN ARE EASY SAYING THAN DONE, hemight be this kind guy that like to make just a causal friend with ladies. MAY HE IS BE FRIENDING LADIES TO ALSO KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THE MARRIAGE SINCE U DO COMPLAIN TO HIM.

be patient, he is just been truthful, u should be happy that u are with someone who knows his responsibility as a man, infact is giving the secret you need to last in that family and he will do the same to your family as well.

4 every lie there is element of true, it may not happen exactly but something must ...........................

this is the reward of being popular, come to think of this, does that means nothing happen at all? remember to every statement there are always some element of true.

govt should create their ministry for them since they are there to satisfy the politician.

congrat, u are a good writer and the story is interesting. u got what u were looking for. teach your children to avoid such mistake and let them know that your culture did not allowed that. some culture like the Hausa's own allow cousin to marry. thank God u were not pregnant for him b/c it could be the worse. forgive yourself and continue with your life but are u still have the same feeling for him? remember him his wrong and hear his reaction.

be very careful and trust your partner. don't you have some of your female co-worker number? if u have good intention for the girl pls stay focus.

if u no feel any element of jealousy when your guy or girl is having another affair then u don't love him or her. still sort it out with your partner and not the other person because he or she has the right to love whom she or he desire just as you did. To fight is bad even for anything talk more of lover.

it is not easy but think of this, assuming she was working and get marry to someone who is working in abroad, will she quit the job and go for the marriage or remain in her job? or she is not working and after the marriage the husband lost his job, will she pack out of the house? poster be very careful or you may forfeit your marriage, obey before complain. he did not marry u because u are working but because he love, remember he can do anything to protect that love he has for u. answer dis question, is your certificate only have value in the company that are working presently or not? don't lost your faith in God.

at least, he had a story to tell in his life.

it is their time, wait for yours.

that is great.

that is too bad. Ladies use your security knowledge some time because to be rape is better than to be kill; from the story of the incident it shows that, may be the lady was struggling with them and that is why it end up in such a tragic way. Try save your life 4 it has no duplicate.

Waco, you need award for your update but let them cool down.

Really, ladies with long hair easily attract guys at first sight, that is what give them the opportunity to be chosen as a friend. Something must be attractive to u before u can decide either to go for it or not. Remember that the beauty of a woman is her hair.

Student or not, prostitution is bad. Ladies use your time to plan well because the guys are ever ready to ............

its not easy but ur case is better and can be handle. do things the way he want it and not the way u know it, be confident to approach him and let him understand that u are not happy with the way he treated u. also try to study his character that will help u to know how to follow his order. he is only preparing you for future challenges and a harder task which u may face sometimes to come. remb the fight u run 4rm today u will meet it tomorrow, don't look at it as a problem but a challenge. bye 4 now.

it is b/cos African culture did not permit that, nd also some of the girls have more than one guy, so by doing that on the street spoil their  runs. Also as a mature guy, u need not to behave like that on the street b/cos some body(Children) is look up to u as a role model. nd b/cos of the respect place on love affairs.

Ist u have to know her well, make her ur friend, plan 4 her future, tel her ur expectation,call late in de night,be sincere with her, be joval,assist her in her need,let her have a saying in the relationship,don't be promiseous nd be generous. pratice the above she will die 4 u nd not crazy about u.

u know no place like home, there is nothing that can substitute 4 your home. 4rm the begining of the creation women like lie b/cos they have the canal nature of lie from serpent. since then they prefer someone who can lie very well. they will be dying 4 u expect those ones that are religious, but no matter how ok the dog is, if  it sees its natural food 4 sure it will go for it {faces}.