Am confused.am into a relationship with a lady of 18 yrs for about two yrs without having sex with her.she came to my house last week and i told her that, i want to have sex with her but she told me that i should not disappoint her that, am her last hope in fact, i was so confused for her utterances.  even when she was naked, it took us for like an hour b/f she can allow me.actually she is so beautiful and i love her i wanted not to use condom but she insisted on condom but after every thing, i could not believe what i saw.am really sorry to say this.her Virgina was completely loose and she also has a bad discharge when i remove the condom,something was dripping out which i believe is an infection.should i tell  her or not?what do i do secondly,my other girl friend i discovers that any time i make an attempt to suck her Bosom ,my mouth will be full of Bosom  milk,is it an infection? i may be wrong for my actions but is part of life.am jef by name,26 yrs.08054404108.i will be glad for yr advice.