For me, beauty comes first. No insult to the ugly ones, I cannot date ugly women; and I cannot marry an ugly one. In Igboland, both the beautiful and ugly women are paid bride price, and they are all entitled to marriage rites. Why would I be the one to marry the ugly?
Think of your children, how would other kids treat them in school if they come out looking like their ugly mama whom you married because of good in the inside? Personally I would not put that burden on my children. Secondly, I do not cheat on my partners, so dating ugly one would push me to look for beauties outside. Thirdly, remember these topics: "96", sucking, licking and eating of your woman. How does one eat on ugly woman? No, no way! So I always go for the beautiful ones and manage their characters later. Remember, most women behave alike, like every other habit, you just have to learn how to manage or live with them.
First of all no one is ugly but one person can be more beautiful than the other...beauty lies on the inside if you marry a girl that is bautiful on the outside and ugly on the inside then thats a problem and if you marry only for beauty! u will find one more beautiful than what you have and reger ur decision