What we are experiencing is called resource-curse...a situation where a natural resource which would have been a blessing is turned into a source of worry and problems, even death......oil and other resources are blessings.....what we lack is the leadership to translate these enormous blessings into development... God heal Nigeria

Best decision......

man

U could be sitting on a time bomb waiting to explode.....it's obvious your time is a two-time, two-faced guy......u can take your chances but don't rely on him cos he's still very much attached to his ex......

Are u sure the guy doesn't know a little devastating secret about the girl which made him dump her? This secret could be the lady can't get pregnant again due to the series of abortion! Who knows? Nonetheless, this is a good lesson to some ladies.....long courtship is not always advantageous and abortion for a guy many times simply means the guy is never serious with his lady.....the lady was destroying the relationship by agreeing to multiple abortions......anyway, let her take heart and continue with her life.....the heartbreak may be a blessing in disguise...who knows?

From experience (personal and other close pals'), accepting a guy back after saying goodbye does not bring desirable results....what gives her the assurance that he won't repeat the disappearing act? Nonetheless, let her also pray about it and let God guide her before making up her mind......wish her all the best.

That doesn't mean he should be the one to lose it for her! Not loosing it for her does not mean not loving or caring for her...she can be doing it to satisfy her hubby and go pay a hairdresser to lose it for her

wow! u sure know one thing-how to insult people! Tell me lady, what has my comment got to do with u? Or are u his wife? I read what the poster posted and made my comment (directly to d poster)......in case u do not understand.......I meant that he's married and whatever his choice of a woman is no longer matters since he's married....tell me, what's the insult there? I don't care who he's married to-Nigerian or not! Please, mind ur speech, it's not everyone that loves exchange of insults.......

Typicalman, why this post since u already got a wife? Or are u considering a change or advertising her qualities indirectly?

There's a need for a woman to understand her man well and his likes and dislikes.....
Some men may be caring and loving but still view such tasks as debasing......while some see nothing wrong in doing that for their women....
Know ur man well and know what to request/demand from him.

I think people help PDS posts thrive by posting comments on them instead of ignoring such.
I also think one way to do it is to allow members vote/rate a particular post. Once the post-within few hours of being posted generates a certain number of thumb-down votes should be deleted. It may take days before some posts get comments up to 3 pages. Just my opinion.

She never disappoints....great inspirational singer.....
Nonetheless, action speaks louder than words....
we need to back our words by action to propel this nation to the desired height...
God help Nigeria

The Newspapers are saying Saturday 23rd for Governorship.....which one is correct?

So much just 4 april fool...

Ask trolling d old soldier!

There's no better or worse cheat between male and female cos where a male cheats, there's a female and where a female cheats, there's a male.......except in bisegxwal or homosegxwal cases

There are some women who have the hearts of the devil himself.

@ poster: u're in a delicate position for his wife to have seen u. It would've been easy to notify the husband anonymously had the wife not seen u but now, even if the husband finds out from other sources than urs, u're in for a war with her......the best advice had been given u. Advice her to desist with a promise not to disclose to the husband but find ways of distancing urself from the marriage.......on a lighter note, what were u urself doing where u caught her 2ce?

Guess the man needs a 3rd opinion to draw his conclusions. There are 3 girls, one has accused the other of infidelity and the accused's probably defending herself. The hubby may be confused (for lack of adequate evidence) and needs a 3rd opinion to know what to believe. U know one problem with some women is that they can say and do anything to hit/spite another woman. The accusation maybe false afterall. I think our pal here should just do her best in saving her friend's marriage by convincing the man that she has NEVER had reasons to suspect his wife's fidelity............and that the other spoke out of annoyance.

I can there's a way u can call both girls to order (since they're ur friends) without getting involved with the husband's issue. If they continue like this, who knows what the end may be. Settling the rift may even impact positively on the alleged adulterous girl's home....it doesn't make sense if they continue.

And to the husband's issue, u don't have to give explanations. Let the lady who started d accusation bear the brunt......